Been in love for two years, said that he would ask me out then, just lays the friend card out.
2006-09-21 15:38:21 · 13 answers · asked by amsurfgoddess202 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We met like two years ago, and we hit it off. Then this past summer, he told me he loved me. Do you think he wants me as a friend or 'more than' just a friend? He told me we could just be friends but never said eveything else with it and still hits on me. He does it want to kill the friendship we have together. Do you think he is playing it safe or what?
2006-09-24 03:05:42 · update #1
give yourself time to cry over him until your tear ducts dried out. keep away everything he gave you, and force yourself not to think about him so much. convince yourself that he’s not worth crying over; also keep in mind that he’s not the last guy you're ever going to love.
severe your ties with him, his friends, and his family… but only until you're ready to face him again as the gorgeous, beautiful, stronger—
and much better— YOU.
2006-09-21 15:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by rein 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet that did hurt, but sweetie look at it this way. He's stilll ur friend and it can still happen maybe u shouldn't allow it to hurt too long because u have to now think about what u want and if it's a relationship then it may have to be with another.Don't wait around to see if he changes his mind go out and meet other guys and if it's meant to happen it will if not then u just have to keep on until u meet ur Mr. Right. He's out there waiting to meet u, now all u have to do is find each other.
So what ya waiting on go on out there an live and met ur furture hubby =-)
2006-09-21 16:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooookkkkkk....so you weren't even dating this dude for the 2 years you were in love? Hmm...sounds to me like he's been yanking your chain and had no intentions of dating you in the first place. Go out and get drunk with your friends and have meaningless sex with the first shmo that comes along. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WASTE IT WALLOWING OVER SOME GUY WHO DOESN'T WANT YOU. You need to keep yer chin up! Be prepared to date ALOT of losers before you find somebody worth your time. In the meantime enjoy being single and hanging with your bitches. The right one will come along when you least expect it.
2006-09-21 15:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by marcia_mahoya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the title of that song... If I can't be number one in your heart then number two on you... that's it!!! Have a funeral for that crush, sob, cry, indulge in it for a night or a weekend. Rent sad movies, eat ice cream and chips. Then have s celebration that your heart is free, drinks with friends, shopping spree, day at spa. Celebrate the fact that you are one huge step closer to being with someone who really loves you.
2006-09-21 15:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweeti....fcuk if i knew that guy i would of kickd his a.s.s
look, i know it hurts..but you shouldnt of let him hurt you 4 2 years like that...who didnt you ask him if the feeling was mutual back then sweeti?...now that you know..if next time a man passes you who you really like..make sure to ask him..get it over and done with because i know now you dont want to be in the same hole as now..dont worry sweeti...there are many other guys out there..just wait and see..dont go looking 4 love..it will come 2 you..i bet, the next time i see you answering a question here it would be...i found the guy of my dreams.his birthdays cumin up..any present suggestions?....
take kare sweeti....
2006-09-21 15:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is really very hard to get over this kind of matter but just think...is it worth it?you spent ur love n joy with a person who now just simply gave u away...u find a another love...i promise u'll mush better...people who recieves love n gives out love r the happiest people on earth...try it...
PS:do cheer up my dear friend...its very hard n i admit i might not feel the amount of regrets n saDNESS u have in ur heart!!!
all the best of luck girl!
peace out..
2006-09-21 15:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by nabila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, take what you can get. His feelings might change in the future. There may be a reason he's keeping you at a safe distance now.
2006-09-21 15:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by drkdreamr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not trying to be mean but u were not in love....u werent with him u were infatuated with him and ur heart isnt broken ur just hurt cause he doesnt want u....u'll be ok and u'll find a great guy dont worry.
2006-09-21 15:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to sweet guy go out with him.
2006-09-21 15:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by tracytracyspikes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy fine someone to take his place.its not him but .it can take some of the hurt.//////// smile .a broke heart don't hurt for ever believe me .
2006-09-21 15:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋