Whenever I go to the gym I always go to the locker room and take a shower, I'm not gay (I have a girlfriend) but I like looking at the other jocks taking showers. What do I do?
2006-09-21 15:37:45 · 19 answers · asked by oh my god 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have cummed sometimes too
but I am not gay because I have read some of their stories and they are disgusting
2006-09-21 15:48:49 · update #1
Men compare themselves in locker room situations all of the time. People only feel offended by it if someone has a prolonged stare or if they appear to be going there just for that purpose -- to look at naked men. This happens in high school and this happens later on in life too in locker room situations.
I've never heard of men cumming in such situations though -- to be aroused at times, yes, but not to climax. If that is happening to you, I would be very careful when you take a shower and such. Give yourself only a limited amount of time to undress, dress, take a shower, towel off, etc. Try to do other things other than looking at the other guys -- talk to people, get ready for your next class, make sure your hair is combed and things like that. Right now, yours is not an issue of orientation. Rather, it is an issue of self-control. Your privacy and reputation are everything.
You really have to take the bull by the horns here and monitor your own behavior -- specifically, in that locker room. If you have to relieve yourself, sexually, do so in private, at home.
You may be straight, you may be bi or gay. That is not of any great importance right now. What is important is that you protect your privacy and you respect the privacy of others in the locker room.
2006-09-21 19:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Wel 1st ive also read sum stories an tink da stories are also gross.
I wouldnt know if ur gay or not. If u are ur in denial. If ur not, den ders many reasons: such as comaring, envy, or ur jst wanna c (dat doesnt make u gay).
Wat u can do is dont let dem c u cheking dem out, cause datll get u in truble. But otherwise dont do anyting. I chek out chiks sumtimes so yeah its no probs
2006-09-22 07:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Imanobody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man, gay or straight, compares himself to others as long as size is concerned.
I have two friends (both male and straight) who, one night, were disgussing about other guys' "length" when showering in the locker room. If you heard them talk that night, you would definetely believe they were gay. They were actually excited and aroused.
2006-09-22 07:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by The Greek Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only natural locker room is mans private area that boys and guys let their eyes wonder to check out packages of other guys.
2006-09-22 04:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't refer to you as gay either, chances are you suffer the male condition. That is you want to measure up to the rest of the guys. You may have some insecurities about yourself, and you look at the other guys to compare yourself to them. Hence the male fascination with who has the bigger penis.
2006-09-21 22:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by canada_phoenix 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well truth be known, you might be g0y; men who are attractive to other men but not gay. If you want to read up on the subject, check out the following site:
2006-09-21 22:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are just interested in seeing guys in their underwear and admire their body. This is just the beginning of Bisexuality
2006-09-22 06:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by newsundersky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be bi curious or just love the male body and be a voyeur
2006-09-21 23:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think the men's locker room is so interesting, wait 'til you make it to the prison bath house.
2006-09-22 01:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
You do that because you're comparing yourself to them. Kind of like "sizing up the competition." It's natural, don't worry about it.
2006-09-21 22:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋