OK i like this girl in college right duh we both in college! Well the point is i know she likes me and i like her but we both shy, yet i tell my friend thats a girl to tell her and so she does but she doesn't tell me $hit back so what i do i like the girl she likes me we both shy yet most of the time am with my friends so their no alone time for us to talk or something but am scary to talk to her cause she speacil and i don't know why???? Help plz
2006-09-21 15:24:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
plz don't mind my writing thats not the problem now! I know my English ok! I just don't like using it!!!!!
2006-09-21 15:33:54 · update #1
As funny as it sounds, by saying you are nervous and shy actually makes it go away some. Part of the reason we are nervous is because we don't want the other person to know we are nervous (self-conscience). Once you put it out in the open you've released that "fear of discovery" nervous energy.
Next time you see her...forget who else is there...just go up to her and say, "Hi ____, what's up? I've been wanting to talk to you for some time now but, I get so nervous around you." Then smile. She'll probably giggle and blush cause that will make her feel like the special girl she is.
I would then ask for her email address or phone number and set up a date where you can spend some quality time getting to know each other. Try to pick an activity date like bowling, roller skating, etc. so there is not too much pressure on either of you to talk.
2006-09-21 19:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by LUCKY3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my boyfriend before we got togther...that shy thing can be a pain in the neck when it comes to relationships...my advice is that you just do it. You know you can't go wrong telling her that you like her cause the girl likes you too! It's hard, and even telling her that you're nervous right before you tell her that you like her is soo awesome. It shows a lot of courage on your part. Good luck!
2006-09-21 16:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You grab her and tell her that you like her and that you want to take her out or something.... if you never catch her alone, you do it when she is not alone... and if your with your friends you tell them to leave you alone.. It sounds easy.. but I know its easier to convince yourself at that moment when your together that it is not the perfect time.. and a better moment will come... but the truth of the matter is, no better moment will probably come.. and by procrastinating.. the only thing you are ensuring is that years later.. when you are sitting back one night watching TV... you will think about that special girl that you liked... but never got together with because you waited to long.. and lost the chance forever...
;-)
2006-09-21 15:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by ME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bro...2 people in a relationship that are shy just doesnt work out...one person in the relationship has 2 be the 1 to step foward.yet, this should be you...because you r the guy.
if you dont try to talk to her and get the step forward then who knows..her feelings mite change because she mite think nothings going to happen between you 2.
approch her..talk to her.....get 2 love her my friend
2006-09-21 15:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has to be a joke, right? What college would accept someone who is as deficient as you are in writing and usage of the English language?
2006-09-21 15:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Poots 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't be like that you will have to know that you are geting to the age you will hve to make some desicsion about some thing ether you are going to merry her or not cause you ar geting to the point that you are to talk to her or not so that you will have to tell her your friends have to go to what so ever they are doing or have to do and you will have to talk to her
2006-09-21 15:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you...I would enroll in an English writing class.....you are really awful and I don't blame anyone for not wanting to communicate with you.
2006-09-21 15:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try sms or email
2006-09-21 15:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by SdM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over your fear & TALK TO THE GIRL!!!
You can do it..........
:-)
2006-09-21 15:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by ThomasR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋