2006-09-21 15:10:31 · 35 answers · asked by babydolll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
accept it now or move on
2006-09-21 15:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by joalteeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I want to know why are you with him? Second it doesn't matter how old a person is respect is universal and should be mutual. I know men look,but I feel if you care about a person you should not eye ball someone else down while they are with you.Bottom line this does not have the makings of a long term relationship cuz he's already lookin' to trade you in for a newer model. I think you better let it go b/c this is definitely another love TKO
2006-09-21 15:20:50 · answer #2 · answered by onedzire27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when u at 29 found out he like younger women it should have been a red flag that he would continue to go check out other younger women. So u may have to either put up with it or o for a guy closer to ur age and not ur dad's age.
2006-09-21 15:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are a younger woman.... and if he can not appreciate you for all you are then go find yourself a younger man. 51 sounds like an uncommitable lost soul, who is still looking even in the presence of you. you deserve much better than that. have higher expectations for yourself and you will find a man who can't keep his eyes off of you.
2006-09-21 15:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by native girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lucky to have someone so young. Let him know that you don't appreciate him eyeballing other woman. If he don't stop. Two can play that game. Start eyeballing guys your age. I'm sure he will pay more attention to what you are doing. He will feel that he have to compete with younger guys. He will be very attentive. I know, I've been married someone 16 years older than I.
2006-09-21 15:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow he is really alot older. What's the attraction? It appears his attraction is the younger woman and it appears it isn't you anymore. I'd be saying "later alligator" and move to someone in your age range. He can't even focus on you!
2006-09-21 15:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could relate in the kind of relationship you are in because my bf is 47 and im 25 but then could you say you are not looking with other man. As long as he is not having physical contact there is nothing wrong. If he love you and you love him you need to learn how to trust him.
2006-09-21 15:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by chill25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you ARE one of those "younger woman" that he can't keep his eyes off. Shoot, he is old enough to be your father - sounds like a mid-life crisis issue to me.
2006-09-21 15:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in his midlife crisis. He's no good to any woman right now. Let him go and find some decent guy instead. You're still very young. You can find yourself an amazing guy.
Good luck.
2006-09-21 15:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with the *****. You are probably young and pretty, and if you married a 51 year old, he better be a billionaire. lol
2006-09-21 15:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by cool_homy_g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hon! what can i say at his age he has to be your benefactor, not a boyfriend. anyhow if he looked at you and not someone around his age what do you expect, trend here: he likes younger women. anyhow if you feel he'll be unfaithful then leave. you are young enough to find someone else. you don't need the stress. let him know how you feel and all the best.
2006-09-21 15:26:11 · answer #11 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋