Definitely.
I took up this new job a few years ago and I chose to try to accommodate people and be less direct. I always used to get into some amount of trouble for being too direct and telling people off regardless of rank, as long as I had some justification.
Last year I attended this workshop on how to convince people. Basically you have to develop your own style that suits you. I realised that I was making myself unhappy by changing in a way I did not really believe I should.
So since then, I am back to being myself.
What I need the most is time. I am trying to live my life to the fullest, and I am getting myself involved in and doing stuff I wanted to try . So I need time.
What I don't need, is probably issues at work. But then again, these are meant to be dealt with and as long as I 'retaliate' I can deal with them.
If I could give advice, it would be, be yourself, that's the only way you could approach a state of happiness.
2006-09-21 21:10:52
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answered by ekonomix 5
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Nowhere near close to myself...but I guess that is okay. What do I need the most? Piece of mind. Any piece will do. What don't I need? To be hurt.
2006-09-21 22:15:58
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answered by Jenny Girl 3
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yes today i`m being myself as usual but it would help if i could be a bit less of my self then every one else wouldn`t be wondering if i`m just a bit puddled or if i completely lost the plot
2006-09-25 11:42:43
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answered by keny 6
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Have to admit I've not been feeling myself, I have tried hard to be myself though. It's not easy!
2006-09-21 22:15:31
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answered by CAROL S 2
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I need a ciggy, a beer and a girl :)
2006-09-22 02:07:51
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answer #5
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answered by coffeejitterzz 2
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love,peace and happiness,that`s what i need the most!
2006-09-21 22:07:30
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answered by CHARLIE 3
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Yes, and it's about time!!
2006-09-21 21:59:25
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answered by T Time 6
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just want to feel loved
2006-09-22 04:28:37
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answered by Mrs Chicagosgirl!! 5
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i need more self confidence.
2006-09-21 21:58:53
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answered by Snuz 4
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no...i need confidence...calmness...and a guy...
2006-09-24 19:05:54
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answered by shortyblitz2 1
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