ok well theres this girl that i like and she has been my best friend scince like grade1 and if i ask her out im worryed that she will say no and never speak to me again we've been through everything together and i dont want that friendship to go away but i really like her at the same time what do i do?
2006-09-21 14:56:43 · 13 answers · asked by !!David!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
david...the person you love has to be actually ur best friend...and u r lucky man to fall for the girl who is ur best friend...and if she is really your best friend...she will understand your feelings...even if she dosent have same feelings for u she wont break the friendship...friendship will be there and ur feelings might fade away...but u need to go for it...let her know about ur feelings when u r hanging out...dont need to be romantic or something at this stage...just explain to her and ask her not to freak out...she might freak out for time being but if she is ur real friend she will understand and make u understand...good luck chap!
2006-09-21 15:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well even if she says no, I doubt she'll NEVER speak to you again, especially if you're best friends. She may not feel the same way you do right now, but that's okay! Continue the close friendship and if you two are meant to be together, it will happen sooner or later! And in the meantime, that's gonna be kind of hard if you like her on a different level than she likes you. If your like turns to love, than you'll wait for her, because she is the only one you want and you'll know that in your heart.
2006-09-21 15:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a similar situation...and I honestly would say don't do it unless you are fully accepting of the fact that this COULD end your friendship in the long run. At the same time...your ONE proclaimation of how you feel for her will not end a long standing friendship like that. It will be okay...but if she says she doesn't feel the same way for you...be prepared on how you can handle that and MOVE FORWARD. Tell her if you feel you must...and respect her answer whatever it happens to be. Also, understand you are putting her in an awkward situation if she doesn't feel that same way about you. Good luck!! : )
2006-09-21 15:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she will not react like that, she will not stop speakin to u, the wirst thing she can say is no, if she does its cuz she doesnt see u in that way or its more likely cuz since u have a real good friendship she might not wanna risk that by havin a more serious relationship and possibly break up anf lose everything that u had between eachother
but u do need to tell her ur feelings that u have towards her, dont hide it
2006-09-21 15:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should tell her how you feel and if you guys have been through alot together then she wont just never talk to you again and if you two do go out make a promise at the begginng that you will never stop being friends if it dosent work out
2006-09-21 14:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by pami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chnaces are just because you tell her you like her, she's not going to hate you and never speak to you. It will just make things a little awkward. Just wait a little longer for signs if she feels the same way.
2006-09-21 14:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by nickygurl94 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can trust her then i would say go for it. ask her what she thinks. seeing how you have been friends for a while you should be able to talk to her about anything. ask her if she likes more for a little more than just a friend and if not then forget you mentioned it and you will have your answer and if so then take the next step.
2006-09-21 14:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Bitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue on with your friendship a realtionship might make things awkward and you dont want that to happen and as long as your with her what else matters dont ruin a friendship over a crush.....not worth it..........sorry and best best best of luck
2006-09-21 15:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Counting the Days. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation...Just talk to her and try to figure out if she feels the same way you do. Good luck!
2006-09-21 14:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her as a best friend. That way, you'll have her forever.
2006-09-21 15:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋