I go to this resturant named Bickfords i have been going there since I was a little baby i know everybody who works there,there all my friends (and my dad goes there too.) Well anyways then this girl named Brandy just moved there a little while ago and her mom is working there.And i like her alot but she trys to make me jelouse by hugging all the waitress and she goes in the employees place just because her mom works there!She knows that i have been there longer but she trys to make me jelouse she thinks she knows everyone there!!I need advise i know this sounds weird but im jelouse!!!Sorry
2006-09-21 14:33:08 · 4 answers · asked by melissa b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're jealous because somebody else has a parent who works there? I think you need some serious help - I'm not being a smartarse - I'm completely serious.
Your belief that this girl has some conspiracy in mind to make you jealous, rather than just believing that this girl is new to the area and it might make her feel just a bit better to have some warmth from her mother's co-workers tell me that you are incredibly insecure.
Do you really think that people can't like *both* of you? You think she's infringing on how much "like" others have for you? You sound a little crazed - really.
2006-09-21 14:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel jealous. Try to remember that she probably has the same feelings. Brandy is also probably used to being the center of attention because she's always with her mom.
Since you like her try not to show her your jealous. Show her by your actions that your a nice kid and a good friend. As you grow older you'll grow out of those jealous feelings. You two may become the best of friends.
2006-09-21 21:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to get over it, you have a different relationship with the employees there.The employees will always treat her differently because her mom works there. And to top that I think you are old enough to know that some people need more attention than others and I think you are better than that, you are more mature or you wouldn't have understood that you felt jealous.
It's OK...
2006-09-21 21:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
left her alone and she won't do that again
2006-09-21 21:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by jason 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋