my boyfriend makes me feel like i kid sometimes..he gets into my stuff and seems to want to know every thing..I love him and want to be with him for ever but what should i do?? I have told him he mkaes me feel like a kid and all i get is an attitude...Can you help??
2006-09-21 14:23:24 · 7 answers · asked by mother of two 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is just trying to know you better, maybe he is a jealous person but if he loves you he is going to change. Just have patience and tolerance but be sincere every single time you feel that he is abusing of your kindness
2006-09-21 14:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by alex_josue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thin if he treats you like that, and does not seem to understand it depends on him if the relationship is going to stick. You need to explain to him why this makes you so upset, and ask him what the two of you can do to work on it. If he gets in an attitude when you tell him how you feel then I'm sorry to say he may not be the man for you. He should respect you and your feelings and if he can not do that than if I were you I wouldn't stay with him. I hope this helps.
2006-09-21 21:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him to back off period.. he has to respect you as a person. if you don't address this issue now he can become abusive.. look at the signs of a jealous man wanting control. You have to take a stand in your personal space.. if he can't you need to leave that where it is and move on.. I would hate for you to have a abusive relationship your afraid of living or dying... all relationship has to be built on respect!
2006-09-21 21:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being childish, not you. You're an adult; insist that he be mature ... and keep him out of your stuff. He is not your father and he has no right to control you. If you don't fix this it will only get worse.
2006-09-21 21:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is insecure about something if he goes through your things like that..he's wanting a reason to accuse you of something maybe??...maybe he's just a very overprotective guy...that can be a good thing..but tell him to back off a little..you need some privacy just like he does.
2006-09-21 21:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by blondemom133 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's insecure and it will only get worse. Dump him unless you like to be controlled
2006-09-21 21:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to go. you told him not to go into your stuff but he still does it. most people like that can't trust anyone because they can not be trusted.
2006-09-21 21:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by patrick h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋