i run into a old friend of mine at the mall. she just looked at me. she said and quote," who are you?" i know she knew who i was but she pretend that she didn't. you see during our freshmen year in high school i went out with her boyfriend behind her back. i shouldn't have done that because her father just passed away. she never forgive me for that. i heard from my other friends that she knew who i was and she still hated my guts. i want to be friends with her again but how can i when she won't talk to me. or even pretend that she doesn't even know who i am. should i get my friendship back with her?
2006-09-21 13:45:46 · 17 answers · asked by AngelCakes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
* she's even in one of my classes. when i would try to talk to her. she won't listen. my friends told me that i shouldn't try to have her friendship back but i do want it.
2006-09-21 13:47:28 · update #1
Personally, I do not blame her. It takes two sides to be a friend. You did a poor job last time. She is not interested now and you cant force her. Better luck with your decision making now. You also learn that your actions matter and not everything will be forgiven and forgotten just because you want to move on. Good luck with future friends.
2006-09-21 13:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by shanb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should not be her Friend it is from the pass you have a life to move on enjoy it BC you never know when it is going to end i know what am saying on of my best Friend this happened to her. the truth is what matters you did something really mean and i think she will never forgive you if you were my Friend i would never forgive you but you have to know what when someone Gert's hurt really bad by the person she thought was her Friend it hurt BC you can never see the Truth or of them so move on for the best of you don't make you life sad what happened , and what you did wrong you can never change it so move on BC it is the best you can do don't hurt her more then you did in the pass you or the one that is going to get hurt if you think she is going to forgive you move on and the pass what that just the pass look for the matter's that is near am sure.
2006-09-21 14:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by ZAC LYNN SPEARS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she actually doesn't recognize you. Have you changed so much that people that you used to know so well ask you who you are?
But if that's not the case, maybe you should apologize and at least *try* to talk it out with her. Even if that sounds rather...unoriginal, it's the best you can do for now. Other than being ultra violent and socking her in the face.
2006-09-21 13:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this girl was your friend but you were never her friend. I think you need to discover the true meaning of friendship before trying to get close to anyone.
2006-09-21 13:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were her, I probably wouldn't want to get back into a friendship with you. Walk around in her shoes for a little bit... Would you want to be friends with someone who betrayed you? I wouldn't. Infidelity is gross, and she probably thinks so too.
2006-09-21 13:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Catastrophic. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 06:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by leong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if you really want to be friends with her just try to remeember her of some of the good times. and tell her if you don't want to be friends then tell her how you think it will affect your feelings besides .its from the past dodn't let so stupid boy get in the waty of the your friend ship.because its someting stupid to fight about.
2006-09-21 13:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her, talk to her and pour your heart out to her.
Play her little game of explaining who you are, that is a good way for her to let a little steam out which is what she needs to do. Remember to end your conversation with her with, "I'm hoping we could be friends again, I don't expect to be friends again and I understand that." and leave it at that. linger for a second and walk away.
This isn't exactly a fool proof plan but its a good shot to take.
2006-09-21 13:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by nmk9543 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her be all mad at you you shouldnt have had went with her boyfriend behind her back and you should have supported her when her dad died just forget about being freinds with her you'll have plenty more in the future
2006-09-21 13:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why haven't you ever apologized to her in all this time?
Thats what you need to do.......both for her and for yourself.
Talk to her and be truthful and explain what happened. Take your lumps and ask her to forgive you.
Please let us know how you make out?
2006-09-21 13:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by Joey Bagadonuts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋