Are all relationships complicated, and stressful?

Question

sometimes it gets so hard, i feel like giveing up. We talk all the time, but we still have our issues. What are some constructive ways to deal with this, anyone else have complications at home?

Answer 1

guess evey relation got its complication. some are more than others, but i never found any relationship (in any form) which is perfect, with no problem what soever. unfourtuantely 'the show must go on' and avoiding them are not gonna make it go away (it only gonna make it worst!). so...the art is to find way to solve it or make it managable for us to get on with it.
if you really wanna know...i have problem with my bf, housemate and father at the moment.

Answer 2

You should just always talk things out to the best of your abilities. Try not to be too senstive because men do not always speak the clearest. If you really love each other it will work out. At some point any relationship that is worth it is complicated and stressful aslong as its not like that all the time you guys should be okay

Answer 3

All relationships can be complicated and stressful, but is getting through all that .. that makes it worthwhile ..talk to each other about the problems .. find ways of compromising.. and take walks together to walk off the stress ..just try to work through them the best way you can

Answer 4

Yes there is always complications and stress in a relationship.
Some more than others. If it is too stressful, you need counseling or some sort of outside help. Is it daily? If so, you might want to consider breaking up. I know that sounds harsh but it will save you and him in the end. You need more details. What kind of complications?

Answer 5

If you truly love your partner the key word is "loyalty". Just like a dog knows of no other way to treat his owner but with loyalty. Always be there for him if you want this to work. Communicate but don't attack. If you have to bring out something bad in him make sure you some how balance it with something good too. One other thing.....don't keep track of his track record and use it against him each time you try to make a point. He'll think you don't know how to forgive. Good luck and I hope you work things out.

Answer 6

The first thing that we have to remember is that everyone has their own opinions and ways of doing things. We are entitled to those. Some times you just have to agree to disagree. If it has to do with parenting we have found that it is best to let whom ever is faced with the problem handle it in their way. For instance i really am opposed to spanking children. i was raised in a home where we respected our parents and wanted to please them enough that we tried our hardest to abide by their wishes and to make them proud. Disappointing my parents was far worse to me than a spanking could have ever been. My husband was raised with parents who loved them equally as much but chose to spank as a deterrent to miss behaving. We will never agree. I'm not wrong and neither is he. So if I an taking care of a problem I do it my way If he is then he does it his way. we don't argue about it and we back up each others decision. this keeps peace in the house and presents a united stable atmosphere for them to grow up in.

Answer 7

Not if you really, really love someone. My boyfriend and I have lived together for over two years and have had one fight. We disagree from time to time but I've never felt stressed @ home...it's one place I always feel comfortable.

Answer 8

no all relationship are easy at first then hard at the end which is the part where they get break up but thats not likely to happen which give you a happy life

Answer 9

If you think it's worth it, then keep on with the relationship. In my opinion, getting into a relationship is like promising no matter what, you'll be with that person. This is your "no matter what."

Answer 10

Yes.