when ever i bring up the conversation on what he going through he always telling me he dont what to talk about it and i dont know why do u know?
2006-09-21 13:28:22 · 12 answers · asked by enelra1411 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When men are thinking they are not like us. They do not think out loud or talk about what they are feeling. So what you can do is just wait it out with him. Be available whenever he wants you close, even if it is just to be there while he doesn't say anything. I want for you to tell him that you love him and that you will be his shoulder, and then, honey, just wait it out with him.
2006-09-21 13:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Shanigirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't like talking about their feelings cause to them it shows them as being weak. Instead of bringing up the conversation, let him know you are there for him whenever he feels ready to talk. Just letting him know you are there for him when he needs you will be enough.
2006-09-21 20:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people have a hard time coming to terms with the fact that they need people to help them. The best, and almost only, thing you can do FOR him is to let him know you will be there if he ever wants to talk about it.
2006-09-21 20:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by monarchfly7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for him when he needs some1. that's what u can do. supportive. Write him a letter if he doesn't want to talk. Tell him that u wanna no what's bothering him and that ur there for him no matter what and that he can talk to u........ then give him space. when he is ready, he'll come to u. good luck!
2006-09-21 20:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simplly nothing just be ther when he need you and everything will be fine. Cause the last thing you need to feel bad you got in between so just be there to look out for him.
2006-09-21 20:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know that you are there for him no matter what.....Tell him that if he needs to talk about anything that you are there for him, let him know that he can trust you.
2006-09-21 20:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by mstiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, so try to be patient and he will tell you when he don't feel the pressure to talk about it.
2006-09-21 20:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blow him will make him feel much better =P on second thoughts he might be ashamed of this little family secret... prolly slept with his mum and you need to keep far away
2006-09-21 20:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably feels a little guilty about it.
2006-09-21 20:30:07 · answer #9 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't like his family to talk about them
2006-09-21 20:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋