He has been saying it since I was 8, but I still do think he was doing it just to get me in bed with him. He really loves that fact that I am the one he is with, but I feel he is using me till I'm thruogh. He's my first love and everything. I really do know what to tell him or what to do. The LOVE word got in the way. I feel so used and assamed. If there is any boys that doesn't think sex is the answer to a relationship please let me know.
2006-09-21 13:25:22 · 5 answers · asked by nisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
speak your minds
2006-09-21 13:30:28 · update #1
The best and purest way to find out if he loves you is if he shows you. Actions speak louder than words. So if he makes you feel loved then their is a good chance he loves you.
Sex is never a way to tell how someone feels about you.
Sex is lust, and love is sooo much more.
be strong don't give it up just unless you are comfortable with your relationship and have no doubts.
2006-09-21 13:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dave L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get you, why would an 8 year old ever try to get into bed with you? Anyway sex isin't the answer to any relationship and if you don't like him, just leave him don't break his heart or yours later on.
2006-09-21 13:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my current g/f made me wait till she was ready to give it up get this we were in love going out and everything she made me wait for soo long that i got fustrated but i loved her so i waited until she was ready when she finally gave it up it was great, guess what now we are tog for 3 yrs. about ot get our own place and we have alot of kidz(animals) and of course we are happy if he claims he loves you all that time he should respect that u wanna wait and not jump into big descisions like that, maybe later on you'll regret so tell this to him u are not ready, give you some time and then u'll find out if its love or he just wanted to see wats under those thongs;-)
2006-09-21 13:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by EiaMaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much does anyone love anybody? Not a measurable comodity. Were you used, Yup!! move on he does NOT love you. You say you know he does. How do you know that? You are not in his heart or mind, you don't know how he feels. Sure he'll say he loves you, get into your panties then he'sll say goodbye until next time.
2006-09-21 13:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is not the answer to any thing don't let no man use you for your body if he love you he'll wait till your ready don't let no man abuse your body.
2006-09-21 13:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋