We do it every night especially before she ovulates
2006-09-21 12:35:22 · 15 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
we have been trying for 7 months and every month we think we are pregnant. its kinda hard to forget about a baby when we want it so bad.. any more suggestions?
2006-09-22 10:07:07 · update #1
Joe, you must do it on the ovulation day or on the next day.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into her mouth and check her body temperature every morning before she starts turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. You must ejaculate on your inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex she must stay in bed for about 30 mins with her knees bent up with a pillow under her buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
You must save your sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-09-21 14:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it every night! Only do it when you are pretty sure she's ovulating. It should be around 10-15 days past the first day of her period. This is advice a fertility specialist gave a professor I know, before he would give them any drugs. Just try "hitting the target" as many times as you can without missing by having sex when you don't, um, need to. I know that sounds funny. Also, it will help if your wife reaches orgasm.
2006-09-21 21:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny Alice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she spoke with her Doctor? If she hasn't seen her Dr., maybe she should set up an appointment to determine if there's anything wrong. ALSO, if you haven't seen your Dr. I suggest you get checked out as well. Sometimes, people (as well as women) are quick to assume that it's the woman that can't get pregnant and majority of the time the male's sperm count can be low. I suggest you and wife see your physicians to determine if any factors are hindering you all from becoming pregnant. Please note that Doctors recommends that you try to conceive for a least a year before seeing them. Good Luck and keep trying.
2006-09-21 21:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Who me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok maybe your not timing the ovulation correctly. One the first day of her period circle it on the calendar. She should ovulate between the 10th and 14th day after her period. I would encourage you two to have sex on all of those days. Sperm can live up there for I believe a few days. So that way when she does ovulate chances are it is already up there.
This worked for me and my husband the first month we tried it.
Just keep trying.
Good luck
2006-09-21 19:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ... you should not be doing every night...... you should be doing it every other night...or every two nights.... you need the sperm to build up again from the previous time you had sex !!!!! Secondly ..... don't do it...just to get pregnant... enjoy it ....... go with the flow... she is not relaxed... she is laying there hoping that night is the night it will happen. When you want something that bad..... of course you never get it !!!! She should also take vitamins.... prenatal preferably .......if all else fails...... you may need to see a fertility doctor !!!
2006-09-21 20:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joe talk with your wife about going to the doctor and find out why, it could be something small or big but you need to have a professional opinion before anything else. A lot of people will tell you what you could do, but a physician can test her and find out wants going on. One thing you could do is tell her not to stress it will happen for both of you. Good Luck~~~
2006-09-21 19:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by msleya2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all my heart goes out to the both of you.me and my husband tried for 5 years and nothing,i cried that long.every month i would get a test and nothing.everybody told me i was thinking about it to much,that i wasn't relaxing during sex.but when you want a baby so bad it's very hard to forget.but after that long i thought i couldn't have kids,so i gave up!!!2 months later i found out i was pregant.so my advice to you and your wife just get into one another and forget about it,more your wife than you.she needs to be very relaxed,and when it happens she gonna think back and say i bet i no when i got pregnant,cause i no i did.
2006-09-21 23:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by bridget j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the circumstances any illnesses... I would have to know more but i would say normally to have her take prenatals now it helps...and if nuthin talk to the dr...consider other options like a saroget mother n stuff...good luck, my baby passed away so cherish all babys and kids
2006-09-21 19:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could just be stress. relax and have fun with it. if its been over 6 months see a doc. and u should keep ur part loose and cool for sperm. also have no sex a few days before she ovulates.
2006-09-21 19:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by psychpath64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many reasons why you havent conceived.
it could be her or you or it just isnt the right time.
this is an amazing website to visit that has sooo much good advice
tryingtoconceive.com
go to the ttc store and the discussion boards, they are full of information and things that will increase your fertility.
2006-09-21 20:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋