My 2 Best friends got in a fist fight today and they want me to choose between who I want to be my friend.
2006-09-21 12:29:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Were you the reason they were fighting ???
Give them something to fight about… Dump them both !!!
Tell them straight out that you choose ‘both of them’ or you choose ‘neither of them’…
Make them decide !!!
2006-09-21 12:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They shouldn't make you choose. If they want your friendship bad enough and see you as someone they want in their lives, they would understand when you told them that you weren't going to choose. Sit them down and tell them that they're both great friends and that you don't want to lose either one of them. And tell them that you won't choose and if they can't accept that, then neither of them will be your friend... Maybe this could even bring the two of them back together by you being friends with both of them... They need to see that, not only have they lost eachother as friends, but they're about to lose you too... Maybe they'll open their eyes then... Good luck I totally agree with ICYUR... the first guy who wrote an answer...
2006-09-21 12:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by thewomanbehindtheman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither. If they are true friends they would never make you choose. There is nothing wrong w/ being friends w/ 2 people that dislike eachother, as long as you stay neutral and dont talk about either one of them to the other.
2006-09-21 12:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by firecracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that neither one of them can dictate who you are friends with. You will choose to be friends with one or both because you want to. It's up to them at that point to continue being your friend or not.
But also let them know that you will keep their confidences, and not blab about each to the other.
2006-09-21 13:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful , they could team up at the same time and bypass against you in case you provide them attitudes. first of all they sounds like immature low lives (sorry they do) you are able to desire to tell them to enhance up and recommend different procedures they arrive to a determination their matters besides throwing their fists around like 3 12 months olds in a temper tantrum. Get them at the same time and mediate a communication relating to the justifications they have been scuffling with and help them come to a determination the matters like adults. sturdy success! it extremely is a tuffy undertaking!
2016-10-17 10:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are true friends they wouldn't be putting you in the middle of there fight. you should not have to choose between them and i would tell them both that.
2006-09-21 17:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz answer mine after ty
dunt choose between them they r just been daft i remember wen i was young n i had the same problem. i just kept out ov it n hung round wiv both ov them.if they dint like it then thats there problem not urs.they will get bk mates soon
2006-09-21 12:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by cindy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you become a prize, then drop them both. Tell them both that they don't decide who your friends are. Stand your ground. One or both will come around eventually.
2006-09-21 12:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should choose the friend that you have known for a long time that is loyal to you
2006-09-21 12:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by tawneyroselayda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they arnt that good of friends who would make you choose find another best frind they will come running
2006-09-21 12:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by chris m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋