Okay, let's get one thing straight first, I'm a girl. I DO like guys, but sometimes thinking about girls naked gets me horny. This is weird because I couldn't see myself in a regualr relationship though, you know emotionaly. But with guys I can of course. BUT...when I see pictures of naked guys on movies or wherever, I get grossed out and sick to my stomach. What's wrong with me? I don't think I'd want to be with a girl someday because I don't like them like 'love or romance' , just sexually. I'm just confused, and I know that would mean i wouldn't be just bi, but I'm not lesbain either because I still like guys, just in a different way. What could this mean?
2006-09-21 12:20:04 · 7 answers · asked by BlinkOnce 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'm right there with you, honestly. But I hadn't thought about girls recently, until you mentioned this. So that's one question - do you think about girls often, or more often than boys? I love boys too, but I don't necessarily like them naked either! Maybe I'm not the best person to answer this then, but... LOL. If it makes you feel any better, I feel the same way. One thing I try to tell myself is that I like to focus on the aspect of female pleasure. Sometimes you just wish the guy wasn't there, LOL. I don't know if you can relate to that at all... I also think that girls can relate to eachother a lot better. I love guys too much to ever be a lesbian, but I can see why some do it. Not that I think it's a choice, but... well I think that a relationship with another woman, whether emotional or sexual, could be very rewarding. Who knows a woman better than another woman? They know exactly what will work for you and how it feels, so they're more likely to be generous about it. Anyway, I hope I didn't worry you more.. have to see if some other people have a totally different take.
2006-09-21 12:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kiki 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're bi. but no one can tell you for sure. Kinsey, the original sex doctor, said that there was a scale of how homosexual or heterosexual you were. 1's and 2's mostly perfered members of the opposite sex, 3's and 4's were inbetween, and 5's and 6's perfered members of their own sex. You might be a 2, where for love and relationships, you prefer men, but also have a thing for women. Here's the thing: you can always try it out and see what happens. Having a relationship with a woman won't hurt you any more than a relationship with a man will. and this may be weird, but should you decide you don't like it, guys get kind of turned on by women who have had lesbian relationships.
2006-09-21 19:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by fireballfanaticgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be bisexual, and there's nothing wrong with that. Or you may just be curious, nothing wrong with that either. The important thing is that you've noticed and acknowledged it. It would be a good idea for you to talk to someone whom you trust that won't be judgemental, preferably someone that you think may have also gone through this.
2006-09-21 19:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means u would f u c k a girl but wouldnt date one it aint weird some girls i know say they think women have a more sexier body than men do and they r straight
2006-09-21 19:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by bigboss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like lesbian to me. But maybe you should talk to a psychologist about this.
2006-09-21 19:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by wowwhatwasthat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means your as normal as every one else. both boys and girls. every one sooner or later will have thoughts or feelings like you have.
2006-09-21 19:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by george 2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're curious
2006-09-21 19:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋