My boyfriend tells me im beautiful all the time but i never feel beautiful... whats wrong with me?

Question

and how do i fix it?

Answer 1

It sounds like you have low self-esteem. You should probably seek counseling. Check your health insurance to see what's covered, then make an appointment.

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with you except lacking self-confidence. Sometimes no matter how many times someone tells us we are beautiful we may never see it ourselves. It stims from problems in the past or something that has happened. Ill give you an example ok. My dad was always negative when i was a child. He was abusive more so mentally but physically as well. I have always had low self-confidence because of him. As i turned into an adult i was shy but the older i got the more i got out of that because i finally realized my dad was full of poo and that i was in control of my life and my destiny and no one can take that away from me. Inner beauty must be a first before one can see outer beauty. You must start with yourself and ask yourself look in the mirror if you have to and say why am i feeling this way and how can i change myself. What i did is i changed how i thought about things and myself. I use to worry about what others think about me now i dont care. I am happy in my own skin and i am beautiful inside and out and if some person cannot see that about me then they surely dont need to waste my time. If you must seek counseling and find out you could be depressed without knowing why. Its possible to be that way. You have to feel good about yourself and feel alive. If you dont then you are only hurting yourself in the end. If you have a boyfriend that loves you and he tells you that you are beautiful then by all means tell him thank you baby i appreciate what you say. If you keep on ignoring him he might think he is doing something wrong then you would be wrong for that. Be positive if life hands you lemons you grab them and you make lemonade and make it sweet. Remember most of all we only have one life to live ok. Live for today because tomorrow none of us might not be here. The great spirit made you beautiful the way you are never let anyone tear your inner spirit out least you fade away in vain....be sweet and let your spirit shine sister....

Answer 3

You are suffering from the same thing most women in the western world suffer from, media damage! We are all bombarded with images of amazing looking women everyday, something like 1000s, so it's natural for us to feel like we look like shite. Try rateting how you feel after reading a glossy fashion magazine versus before reading it!

Get rid of your TV, don't read the papers or magazines and wear dark out of focus glasses when you are out so you don't have to look at the bill boards! OH ya and NEVER check your BFs internet history!

Answer 4

You have a problem common to many women, low self-esteem. Women often think less of themselves than they should. The good news is, you can imporve your feelings by getting qualified professional help from therapists you trust. Most of us have insurance that can cover the cost, or, it is provided through your school. It works. Try it and feel better.

Answer 5

I'm pretty sure it's all in your mind. Your boyfriend thinks your beautiful, so should you.. You just need to feel comfident about yourself. People will take you more seriously when you do and guys love confident girls.

Answer 6

You're probably not, and your boyfriend just says it to be extremely nice.

You can fix it by getting over yourself.

Answer 7

AWW THATS SO SWEET .. YEAH NO GIRL BELIEVES ME WHEN I TELL THEM THEIR BEAUTIFUL ..IT MAKES ME WANT JUST CRY!

Answer 8

lack of self confidence?
just be yourself!