im a 15 year old girl and im going through a tough stage in my life, theres only one person i can trust and that and thats my 37 year old teacher. Shes always helped me but now since schools starting again she needs to kkeep it professional, and that means not getting to involved with me in the school year. i feel abandoned adn i hav eno one to go to, i cant go to my parents caus e all of my stress is about them and they know it and they dont care, what do i do, this lady is my metour, and she told me i cant confide in her anymore, what doi od?
2006-09-21 12:04:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Your teacher is a professional she cannot assist every student she has. Im sure she is a very busy person also. Maybe you should seek help from your school counselor, thats what they are there for.
2006-09-21 12:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know it would be a challange to trust and get used to another person enough to confide in them, but maybe you could search out a school counsellor. They can be very helpful.
I know this might mean nothing, cause it probably would have to me at 15; but it highly unlikely that your parents dont care. They probably just seem like it cause they are standing by thier decisions, they feel they are doing whatever is best for you and the family. They probably feel pretty stressed out about things with you too. I am totally not saying that problems you have in your household are all you fault. Sometimes parents have a hard time finding the best course of action. It takes a lot of inner discipline to be a parent and everyone has thier weak moments; they say something they shouldnt or make a choice based on emotions rather than rationality.
Perhaps you could talk to your parents and see if they can aide you in finding a proffessional counsellor outside of school. Maybe even ask to go to conselling with your parents. Sometimes that can really help since you'll have a mediator present who can help you be heard and understood.
Good luck
2006-09-21 19:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can try talking to one of the counselors at school. I can see how her rejection would add to your stress. Or even make a new friend online with a woman though or a girl your age you guys can IM and email each other that way you will see that someone else is going through the same thing you are. We tend to be selfish and think that are problems are the worst and then we look outside of ourselves and see soempeople have bigger even harder problems than us. Another suggestion is if you go to church see if there is a woman there that can help you. if you are scared about your parents hearing what you guys talk about, go to another church. Join a youth group and make new friends. You will be ok!
2006-09-21 19:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you can't talk to your parents and that you are having so many problems with them. But, maybe they ARE the ones you need to talk to. Have you tried and tried and tried again? If not, give it a shot.
Ask your teacher/mentor if she knows anyone else you can talk to. A school counselor? A mother of a friend?
There are many people who would like to help you. Reach out to them. Best of luck to you!
2006-09-21 19:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to be that someone ratted on your teacher friend, she is probably trying to avoid you in order not to get in trouble, people sometimes dont understand this kind of relationships and think that there must be something else going on, give your friend teacher some space is not her fault she is doing this I'm sure she is being forced to do it this way, try another teacher or a counselor for now.
2006-09-22 00:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by woodtigerdp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try speaking to a guidance counselor. If you live in a large city then look into if there is any type of organization that you could confide in.
2006-09-21 19:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by evilfaerie_13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that must sting. do you have a close friend you can confide in who wont blab secrets. or you can try talking to a pyhscatrist they arent just for crazy people they are good for everyone. they will listen to you without judgement and can help you. good luck
2006-09-21 19:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a friend about the problem. does ur school have a guidence councler? maybe u could talk to them. good luck
2006-09-21 21:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by jordanthegrouch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to your mom...i am 15 also, and me and my mom are really close, we talk about things all the time, even personal things like sex, and boys, etc.
2006-09-21 21:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jessie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can confide in me add me if you want
i wll listen to your problems
2006-09-24 20:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by mickey999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋