i dont have a boyfriend yet and im worried its because of me. i d ont think that im ugly, or mean but im must be since ne i dont have one!! hellp!!
2006-09-21 11:51:16 · 21 answers · asked by Amelie Evangeline 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I don't have one because I don't have much of a social life lately.
2006-09-21 11:53:00 · answer #1 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK! A few things to consider here:
1) If you're ugly, and i don't expect you are, there is someone out there for everyone. You will find someone who finds you attractive. Somone who will care for you. It just takes time.
2) If you're fat/ugly/have 2 noses or some other problem, fact is there are people that are turned on by different people. I once heard of someone who was very attracted to his wife because she had a deformed hand.
3) PERSONALITY IS EVERYTHING! Even the most beautiful women who are jerks look UGLY TO ME! I fall for a great personality. Confidence, and being happy is key to make me attracted to someone. I think that if you accept yourself and are TRULY HAPPY WITH YOURSELF (not just pretending to be happy) then you will appear more confident on the outside, and be more attractive to others.
Thats it! So all the things your parents/teachers said to you about just being yourself? They're true. Be yourself. Love life! Enjoy yourself! You don't need a BF to be happy. Be happy on your own first, and a guy will come along.
ALL THE BEST! Write me an email if you have any other questions. I've been there.
2006-09-21 11:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by cruachanmusic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes if you dont have a bf its because someone doesn't think you are interested or something. Do you like anyone? Make the first move.
yes, if your shy, which i don't know you so i dont know how you are, but become outgoing, and start talking to boys, if you have a particular boy in mind, go up to him and start talking, im sure there is someone out there for you, now maybe not at your school, but you will find someone, i promise
If you dont talk to [him] or dont give[him] a clue, he won't know you like him. It's also kinda hard to turn someone down. If you ask him, you will have a better chance of getting a Yes.
goodluck!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 11:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably just look too good that everyone thinks you must be taken. Or maybe you wear a ring on your left hand which throws people off. Maybe the town you live in most guys are taken. It's hard to tell. Don't worry about it, though. If you're supposed to have one, you'll get one I'm sure.
2006-09-21 11:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that you haven't found the right guy for you...yet. I don't have a boyfriend because all the guys I dated turned out to be jerks and I want to take a little break, see things a different way, and then decide again.
2006-09-21 11:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by yafit k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under 18, stop being a ninny and study. Forget boys for now and make something of yourself. You will meet a great guy in college. If you are over 18, there might be some issues, and I would join a gym to meet people and look your best.
2006-09-21 11:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of extremely attractive women don't have boyfriends. See how many you can name. I assume all of these famous women can't be mean, either. So, I'd look elsewhere for the reason you don't have a boyfriend – and believe me, one day you will.
2006-09-21 12:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO one should have a boyfriend every second of their life. It's VERY normal to be single. i think you're over reacting, and you need to just enjoy yourself... you're obviously young and you have plenty of life to enjoy. Plus boyfriends are stressful half the time.
2006-09-21 13:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's becuase you are shy and you don't just be friends with them, besides all you want a boyfriend for right now is to prove that you're not ugly or mean.
2006-09-21 11:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugly, mean, crazy, bad hygeine, shy, inhibited, inexperienced, strange, or crazy.
all of the above
none of the above
You'll get one sooner or later.
2006-09-21 11:56:03 · answer #10 · answered by loon_mallet_wielder 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋