Ok,I have a friend who is gay.He's told me he's gay, he's went out with girls before, but I see it as a cover up.His mom doesn't know but one of his sisters does because she's bi.Now he even has a boyfriend or does he...?When do u think he should tell his mom?
2006-09-21 11:33:57 · 4 answers · asked by Allison ♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And honestly I'm not going to tell his mom i know that's his descision.....so I just wanna know ur opinions!
2006-09-21 11:40:36 · update #1
And also u know what is else is bugging me?Is the fact that you think that i am going to tell his mom...no i'm not interfering i just talk to the guy...so leave me alone..i already said opinions that are not about me!!
2006-09-21 11:44:19 · update #2
Obviously, it is up to your friend when and how he tells his mother. If he is sure that he is gay (and it's not just a passing phase) then I would say the sooner the better. People who try to hide it feel secretive and ashamed. He'd probably feel much better once everyone who loves him knows.
2006-09-21 12:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by mab5096 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats really his choice. It can be hard to come out about being gay especially to ones parents. I think he should tell his mom when and if he is ready for her to know.
2006-09-21 18:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by evilfaerie_13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure his mother already knows, whether she wants to admit it or not. This is not your issue to be concerned about; it is his personal issue, so do not interfere. He will make announcements if and when he is ready.
2006-09-21 18:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not YOUR place to tell his mom, it's his decision to make NOT yours.
2006-09-21 18:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋