why do most women not like me and assume im a slut? i mean most of my frnds are male. i get on better with guys and ok i subconsiusly flirt ALOT but i dont mean anny harm by it and just cuz i give guys hugs too. i mean this gets real bad cuz when my mates have girlfrnds they dont hang out with me cuz their gfs are jelous and when girls i know have boyfrnds they keep well away. i have never stole anyones man or gave any cause for jelousy. whats wrong with women eh? i am one and i dont even understand!!! honest awnsers pls
2006-09-21 11:22:30 · 9 answers · asked by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its really nice 2 know someone understands :)
2006-09-21 11:26:11 · update #1
I am 32 years old , and i have always had this problem, and also the problem of my male friends wanting to date me. Women dont like you , proble because they are jealous of you , and your looks. You just have to be you. You cant change the way that you are just because of a bunch of overjealous women. As you get older you will realize this.I have a few women friends, and one is my x-husbands wife. I have learned that if someone is going to be your friend they will, i dont try to have any friends anymore. You will be able to work all this out , just take age and time. Be yourself and be happy
2006-09-21 11:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Vickie L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A big part is territorial things... Some of it is threatened by a girl who is confident and charming enough to get along with men... I have this problem often... and i believe some of it is they think we know more about men than they do, so we must have the intention of keeping them all to ourselves. Let's face it, women are just psychotic.... some just hide it better...
2006-09-21 11:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by WifeandMom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women are always going to be jealous no matter what so dont worry bout them you dont need them as long as you have yourself you'll be okay but dont get too friendly with these guys i mean there is a certain point that you should be nice to a guy and if you cross that line it gets out of hand.
2006-09-21 11:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by britiani j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you I get that alot as well. The best advice I can give you is be true to you and don't let anyone tell you to change you, be proud being one of the guys
2006-09-21 11:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by Varacha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
plain and simple there own insucurities. and you may not mean anything by it, but the guy friends wouldn't stay away if they didn't see you as a threat / as some form of attraction. really it's not you...but if you see it poss's a problem then you decide if you wanna tone it down or find better friends whom trust you and know you.
2006-09-21 11:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by mrsgilleland 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe chicks dont like you because guys like you more or something...sounds like the other girls get jealous because of you..most girls dont like the fact that their boyfriend is hanging around other girls...i wouldnt worry about what girls thought about me if i was you...women are hard to understand i know...we all have different personalities and sometimes its confusing...dont worry about em though!
good luck =)
2006-09-21 11:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by ۩Ҝдяї۩ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TO BE HONEST ITS NOT A GIRLS PLACE TO HANG OUT WITH GUYS,, IN SOCIETY A GIRL AND GUY CAN'T ONLY BE "JUST FRIENDS" SOCIETY THINKS ITS IMPOSSIBLE, BUT TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH PPL THOUGHT THE SAME OF ME, YOU NEED TO IGNORE THEM BECAUZ GUYS MAKE BETTER FRIENDS THAN GIRLS DO! TAKE IT FROM..I KNOW, I HAVE BEEN IN A SITUATION SUCH AS THIS.
2006-09-21 11:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should not hang on men that don't belong to you and respect the women they are with.
2006-09-21 12:02:00 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am just like you. Your not the only one.
2006-09-21 11:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋