were both 13 pretty good friends and we have a lot in common i'm scared.
2006-09-21 11:14:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really care about her, think about the fact that she has a very high chance of dying or having major complications during childbirth at that age. Not to mention another fact: You are both children!!! Try to figure out what you really want from this deal. And she also. I don't blame you for being scared. You all need to get a responsible adult involved.
2006-09-21 11:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Both of you will get hurt, and ultimately the child will suffer the most. It's not smart. I'm only 17, and I know I'm still too young to take care of a child, though I have had a lot of experience caring for children, so there is no way two 13 year olds could properly raise a child.
You need to just tell her you're not ready and that if she seeks getting pregnant from someone else it would be a huge mistake. If you're a true friend you'll tell her the truth, even if it's not what she wants to hear. She'll be mad/upset intially, but she'll thank you down the road.
2006-09-21 11:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop being stupid. You both are too young. If you stay together for a long time and really like eachother, then do it the right way. Finish school, get a career started then marriage and family. Do you really think 2 young kids can raise and care for a baby. It isn't fair. If she is having trouble at home, get her some help, but don't try to fix it by having a baby.
2006-09-21 11:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that if you do, you will have to make your parents support the child since you aren't even old enough to get a job. When you are 30 years old, your "child" would almost be 20. That's honestly just gross. You're a kid, wait until you're at least a legal adult that can legally make decisions.
2006-09-21 11:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by adidas_c03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, don't walk! This girl has some emotional problems and you don't need to get caught up in them. Most likely she's very lonely and wants someone to "love" (the baby being that someone!) If you have no willpower, then don't put yourself in a situation that you might be alone with her.
2006-09-21 11:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UR 13?
SAY HELL NO
and u should never do something like this if you have to question it...if your scared tell her. say no way...be strong and don't give in, its alot to go through if you do and your not ready for that AT ALL
2006-09-21 11:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
13? What the hell in wrong with her??? She needs counseling, really bad. You need to tell her to get some help, before she finds some old perv who will bang her and leave her. No one under 20 should have a baby. I mean, shi.t happens but no one should ON PURPOSE have one
2006-09-21 11:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you two are both thirteen don't even think about it. she may think she is ready but in reality you two are not. have you thought it out? it will be her and her parents that are there all the time, no time for friends for either of you and this child will be your two responsiblity until he/she is 18. do you want to mess up your future forever just because she wants to get pregnant? DON'T GO THROUGH WITH IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-21 11:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by stubbornmom2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no, your only 13!! Do you know how much it costs to take care of a baby?
2006-09-21 11:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 u got to b kidding. u keep ur peter in your pants, and tell her to keep her good girl covered and keep moving. she has issues to want a baby at that age. hell get her a dog.
2006-09-21 11:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by b_ladyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋