My boy-friend is sleeping over, after we get back from the Homecoming Dance...I can't wait ! ! ! but the other day over the phone I asked him what he wanted to do when we get to my house he said he wants to lay down in the grass and look at the stars....hey older girls what does that mean ? ? ? Then i asked him if he would wear a shirt to bed he said yes about 10 or 30 min later he siad in a jokking vioce "ok i'll make you a deal i'll sleep without a shirt as long as you will?" all i said was no do you think i hert his feelings?
2006-09-21 11:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by toriabrice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We both have grown up without dads and for moms they just don't care. We made a deal not to go all the way until we are marred or out of collage.
2006-09-22 10:32:22 · update #1
You know what's right for you. if it hert his feelings tobad.
2006-09-21 11:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by ~natural~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think your parents need some serious help if they are allowing this sort of game to be played in their house, with their daughter. Boy-Girl sleep overs involving high school students sounds like something Child Protective Serivces should be made aware of. I have an idea-- why don't you ask your dad what this "sleeping without a shirt" stuff really really means.
Is it OK for your boyfriend to sleep over ? NO NO NO NO NO
2006-09-21 11:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not ok for your boyfriend to sleep over. I know that there are parents who allow such things but I still find it hard to believe!
Lie under the stars with him(very romantic). Have a nice evening. When the evening is over kiss him goodnight go to your own beds and meet in your dreams.
Have a good time.
2006-09-21 11:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's ok w/your parents. I would think it'd be disrespectfull if you sleep in your bedroom. As for laying in the grass & looking at the stars...well, i think it means just that...mayve he's a romantic. If you hurt his feelings by your comment then he's a jerk...don't let him push you into anything you don't want to do however if you are laying in bed w/him then he may feel that you want to have sex & that's where the grey area comes into play as for rape, even though no means no, he needs to respect that.
2006-09-21 11:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by pattysez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, this has shady written all over it. Don't do anything you'll regret later, which means keep his head out of your shirt and pants, and you doing likewise. Give him a separate room, too. Not too be mean or anything, but this could really blow up into something you don't want to deal with.
2006-09-21 11:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you probably don't wanna hear it, but I think it's very inappropriate for you to have a guy sleep in the same bed as you. What are your parents thinking?
2006-09-21 11:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents need some help if they are allowing this. First your shirt, then your pants, now you're doing the bang bang dance. Grow up!
2006-09-21 11:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for standing up and telling him no! You go girl! If you did hurt his feelings he's not worth it, but in this case, I don't think you did. Don't worry about it. But it's NOT OK FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND TO SLEEP OVER IN YOUR BED!!!!
2006-09-21 11:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him and feel comfortable with him go look at the stars with him
2006-09-21 11:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
YUP...IT IS TOTALLY O.K. FOR YOUR B.F TO SLEEP OVER, HEY I WISH MINES COULD......JUST GO WITH FLOW, AND I THINK YOU PROBABLY DID AND HE JUST WON'T TELL YOU.
2006-09-21 11:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋