i know its crazy, but i want one. how do i get my girlfriend to agree, without looking like a rapist. i dont want to get introuble from my parents, i know i will but how do i make it look less perverted. i dont know why, but i realy want one.
2006-09-21 11:09:26 · 32 answers · asked by Esmith 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Raising a child is very hard work. You have to wake up early to feed him/her and pay a lot of attention to him/her. You will definately have a hard time with your girlfriend being pregnant with raised hormones she will be pissed from basically anything. If you have a baby you will have no social life or have time for school, all of your time will have to be directed to the baby. Also, a baby is pretty expensive, especially newborns because they go through diapers really fast and diapers arent that cheap too. and you need to buy formula and clothing and pay for doctor fees and hospital fees so think twice before having a baby. It isnt the easiest thing in the world.
2006-09-21 11:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by itsaherb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First you are way to young to have a baby, how are you gonna buy food,diapers,clothes,milk and all the other things a baby needs. You need to worry about getting out of school,getting a good job,finding a home and a car before have baby's. I have 2 my first came when I was 18 and I had all the above and still it wasn't enough. I spent about $1000 a month just on stuff for the baby, not counting bills and food for my husband and myself. Grow up then have a baby when you get 25 if not older.
I know a girl who had a baby at 13 and now her parents are raising the baby because she want to go out every night and have fun, the fun stops once baby's come around.
2006-09-21 14:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by jackie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants something to hold and tolove. Try getting a kitten, a puppy, or even a bunny for now. 13 is WAY TOO YOUNG to have a baby. Just wait until your about 23.
For now you and your girlfriend have each other and how the heck are you two gonna support a baby?Just forget these thoughts and go play with a baby doll.Do you have a younger sibling? If you do try taking care of it for a day,. You'll see just how hard it is. Then, quickly, you WON'T want one anymore.
Beleive me. My friend Chad, whose 16, girlfriend is pregnant. So he had to quit his job when his parents found out. He got kicked out of his house and can't comeback until he's 30!!! So THINK before you take action, dude.
2006-09-24 10:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by **liam_and_dylan_canadian_boyz** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really sad that you are only thinking about what you want. Have you given any thought to the person you will be bringing into the world. It will not be a toy, it will be a living, breathing, feeling human being looking to a 13 year old to give it all it needs to grow into a wonderful person. It will trust you with all its heart and look to you for its every need. Just think of the hurt and disappointment when the child finds out it can not come from the person he/she loves the most in all the world. At that point in your life you will be wondering what in the world you could have been thinking of. You will be a disappointment to the child and worst of all to yourself.
You have your whole life to think about and when the time comes to start a family you will be ready to give your children all your heart can give. That time will be here before you know it.
2006-09-21 11:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by KieKie 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are far to young to be a father. Your 13 you should be hanging out with friends, going to movies, going to the mall, playing video games etc. How are you going to support a child? You cant even drive what are you going to do if your baby got ill during the night. Not to mention the baby probably wouldn’t even be living with you since it be with the mother. Is it fair to have your parents have to take responsibility for their grandchild no.
You need to go and talk to your parents straightaway. They can find someone who will allow you to watch their baby for 24 hours and after that i am almost positive that you wouldn’t want to have a baby for a very long time.
If you like children/ babies, your at the age where you can start babysitting. I babysat at that age and believe me after 5 or 6 hours I was more then ready to give the kid(s) back to mom and dad
2006-09-21 13:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a thought - try some babysitting jobs before you decide you are ready to become a parent. Or get a puppy. See what it's like to have responsibility for another life before you go make a huge mistake like that. You have no idea what you don't know at this stage in your life, but you probably don't want to hear other people tell you you're too young, either. So go ahead, get some practice in first, then see how you feel.
But for the record, it would be the biggest mistake of your entirely too young life.
2006-09-21 11:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by weez 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are really young!!!! Wait to have a baby when you are older and can accually support a child. Maybe try doing some voluteering at a local hospital and rock crack babies ( im serious they have programs like that) or at an animal shelter or something to dedicate your time to. These kinds of programs will help you feel like you are making a difference in lives and you will be. Dont have a baby at 13 years old, you are barely a teenager!
2006-09-21 11:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by ~*~Brookers~*~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
watch Maury, your girlfriend will end up being just like those girls on Maury trying to prove you are the father because you left her. You are WAY too young to have a child. I had a friend who had a baby when she was 15 now she is fighting the father for child support. She had to drop out of school, find a job and have her parents watch the baby. Do you really want you or your girlfriend to end up like that?
2006-09-21 17:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by princessnae19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont quit tripping! You are 13, you need to be part of some type of sports team, better yet, church youth group! You are still somebody's baby. You will have ample enough time to have children. Dont rush that along. Appreciate being a kid. Do kid stuff.
2006-09-21 12:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have plenty of time later in life to have children. At this moment you are still one yourself. Think about how you would support a child and a family. You are not even old enough to get a job.
2006-09-21 12:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by evilfaerie_13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋