My daughter is 19 and on her,I don't know,maybe 4th "serious" relationship (according to her) and I haven't liked any of them! She is engaged to the most recent loser,is it normal to dislike any of your children's choices in mates?
2006-09-21 11:01:29 · 9 answers · asked by Terri R 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah but you outgrow it, hopefully. Just like your parents disliked your husband when you first met him.
2006-09-21 11:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal to put your guard up when it comes to the possibility of letting your daughter go. Easier said than done, but try to loosen up. Give him a chance, and after a while if you see that you definitely don't like him, then it's ok, don't keep trying to convince yourself. But if you and your daughter are close, it is going to be hard to think of her having a relationship with anyone other than you. It is human nature. But remember, try to put things into perspective. Think of things ten years down the road. Can you picture her with this guy? If not, talk to her. Let her know how you feel and keep an open relationship with her. This will make her feel as if she can talk to you about more and more and it will improve your friendship. Hope I helped!!
2006-09-21 18:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by CherryCola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's possible to like your daughter's boyfriends.
2006-09-21 18:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Katelyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you have to remember that all humans have faults, some more than others.
2006-09-21 18:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes becuase you feel that your child is not loving you anymore. she has another person in her heart. But try to push that aside and feel happy for her.
2006-09-21 18:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes every one of them if you so choose to
2006-09-21 18:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope its genetic law
2006-09-21 18:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to shoot all those creeps
2006-09-21 18:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-09-21 18:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋