My old bf is so mean to me! she is always trying to be better than me, but i knew her since kindergarden, she recently started being a jerk like 2 years ago. We can still have fun together, when we are alone! Now she is having a party this saturday, and inviting all my friends but not me. I really want to go, but i am not invited.
2006-09-21 10:53:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
By the sound of things, your girlfriend doesn’t want to have anything to do with you in public.
Whether she is ashamed to be seen with you… I don’t know.
The behaviour suggests that ‘you are her friend for convenience purposes only’….
In other words… She is using you !!!
You mentioned that she started being ‘a jerk’ toward you about two years ago…
Did she have a ‘Birthday Party’ last year?… Were you invited?
If she hasn’t invited you to her Party, (chances are) it is because she doesn’t want you to be there.
It is up to you what you do…
You can if you wish, approach her, and ask her why you weren’t invited to her party.
It is possible that she didn’t invite you, because she naturally assumed you would be there.
I personally would not want to go somewhere I hadn’t been invited.
I would instead be celebrating the fact that I hadn’t wasted my money buying her a present !!!
2006-09-21 10:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously jealous of you & trying to get the best of you. Ditch her now especially if she is ok w/you when you're alone w/her but tries to be the center of attention and treating you badly when others are around. She's got the issues & this is the time when you find out who your friends "really" are. Don't try to get invited or even discuss the party w/others that are invited because that is what she wants.
2006-09-21 11:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by pattysez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her maybe invite her to eat and ask why she's being such a jerk if that does'nt work try calling her or invite her to the movies or a small get together or something try to fix things with her!
2006-09-21 11:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by daisy9p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember how hurtful this kind of thing can be but believe me when you look back on this when you get older you'll just laugh.
Take some time this Saturday to invite your parents to hang out with you and do something fun! They will love it and you just might to!!
2006-09-21 11:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could always go with one of ur friends and say that one of ur friends invited you to the party. and if she's ur old bf get over it! sometimes dropping people is the best. i no that sounds harsh and it hurts but if its whats best you will b ok!
2006-09-21 11:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by cutie123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's being terrible to you and you need to get away from her and stop dwelling on her actions, whether for you or against you. If she tries to call you, ignore her. She needs to get the picture that you will not be controlled by her. You are your own person and need to find new friends that will be supportave and let you be yourself. Good luck and God bless!
2006-09-21 11:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your own party on the same night! Then you will see who your friends are. If they don't come, find new friends.
2006-09-21 10:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Joe & Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she doesn't want you to attend, find something else really fun to do and try not to dwell on it.
2006-09-21 10:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Katyana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF.......Why would you wanna go if you're not invite? Forget her...... I say get new friends.
2006-09-21 10:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by Rumncoke916 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gatecrash it - if all your mates are going, then go as well - say you assumed he mislaid your invite or something if found
2006-09-21 10:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋