Im a really [book] smart guy and i am a swimmer so i have the whole swimmer physique. I asked this girl to go to homecoming with me that happens to be a cheerleader, a year ahead, and shes got some extre-baggage [chubby]. Of course she said yes, but everytime she wants to say something to me, she has her friends call me. My best friend who happens to have lunch during the same time as her did something really mean to her. She asked him why he was spreading rumors that she was not good enough and too ugly to go with me to hc. My friend told her to look in the mirror. Now they are both bitching at me, cuz shes complaining bout him and he says she she tried to single him out in front of his friends. Since im going with this girl, i took it very personally. I talked to him bout it and told him to stop until at least hc. I called her and asked if she was ok. My friends really dont like her, but hr friends really want me to go with her. Personally im starting to really like her. What to do?
2006-09-21 10:25:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Continue your relationship with her if that's what you want. Stand up for her to your friends & put a stop to them talking about her. Make her feel special & put your friends in their place.
2006-09-21 10:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by bcre8ive2day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man. i dont really know what to say. Listen man if you really like this girl and you wanna go to hc with her. Go. To hell with what they say. If they can accept your judgement than they arent the best friends you can find. But then again. I dont know you, or your friends. So who am i to speak? Anyway. I've been ignoring such bitchen since the day i was born. I find it easier to go along ignoring the rough and making the path smoothe for myself.
If i were you, i would say, f*ck them, this is what i wanna do, this is what im doin.
But as i said. I dont know you. I dont know any of your friends. I really have no place to speak here. But, hey. I try. Even if i fail anyways.
2006-09-21 17:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HS Drama is the hardest thing in the world sometimes. Your guy friend is just a flat out jerk. You need to do what u feel is right
I think you should go with her, especially if you are starting to really like her. as corny as it may sound..Follow your heart.. Peers can be jackass's and theres nothing we can do about it but what we feel is right..and not going with her becuase ur friend doesn't like her...is not right
stick to the date and good luck with it all
2006-09-21 17:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Still go out with her. If your friends are true friends they will not disc your girlfriend. If you really want to see if she is talking about you behind your back then you can just spie on her for a little bit. Also if you have a problem with her telling her friends to call you just confront her.
2006-09-21 17:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by heath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her then thats what matters. did she do something wrong? if she did that might be why your friend isnt cool with her. if she didnt then your friend is just being a jerk. go with your heart. i dont think you should ditch her if you really like her. she had the right to confront him about his behavior toward her. but maybe she shouldnt have done it in front of the guys. i think you need to put on your tux and take her to the dance
2006-09-21 17:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are starting to like this girl, then go with your own instinct. Tell your friends that they should stop talking about her that you don't want them to mess with her. I mean if they talk bad about her, tell them not to do it in front of you, because you don't like it, or in fornt of her, because it will hurt her feelings. Defend this girl if you really like her. What if you guys end up being bf and gf you wouldn't like anybody talking about her, so start from now.
2006-09-21 17:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Isabel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think she is the one, then I think your friends should, respect your opinion, she sounds nice, it doesn't matter what they say, tell your friend he should see what inside of her not out side remember that's what counts, he shouldn't tease her she maybe ugly to him, but she is not to you, she seems shy she just needs to get to know you.
Your friends can choose who you go out with, you should still go with her, don't listen to your friends they just don't see her for what she is, then they don't have to hang out with you if they are going to be mean.
I think you have found a spacial girl, good luck.
Teresa.
2006-09-21 17:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by Minnie May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it's just high school stupid stuff...this kinda stuff always happens b/c people want to try n mess up everything for people b/c the are just jealous of you and dont want you to be happy. Just go out with her and be happy and if u friend wants to mess that up then he might not be a good enuff friend for you, b/c if he was your friend he would want you to be happy... right?! Well just think about that, and go for it! go for the girl you want dont listne to ur friends.. u never kno u might find the love of your life just by dating this girl.. well i hope the best of luck for you!
2006-09-21 17:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont do something based on yoru friends opinions. it was wrong of him to say that no matter what she looks like. i would be mad too. if you really like her, and your friends are true friends they should be mad at you for going out with her, thats dumb. i say take her to hc and see what happens after that.
2006-09-21 17:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by *Cole* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay with her if you really like her. You need to talk to your friends and let then knoe that she is your girl and they need to except that xause you wouldn't do that to their girls and they are really your friends then they would apologize and like her just as much as you do.
2006-09-21 17:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋