2006-09-21 10:16:22 · 21 answers · asked by crystal w 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Badly first came to mind! lol
But seriously - one goes out in public with grace, charm, dignity, joy, liberation, confidence and great expectation.
Realize that YOU are beautiful and your clothes, hair, makeup and accessories are just the window dressing.
Have fun, darlin' and be proud!
2006-09-21 12:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Temple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess a lot of people here cannot understand the huge fear that I think you may be experiencing facing this task. My advice, as someone who faced this fear a long time ago, is that you go to a Cross-dressing club or a transgender night club - many of them have changing facilities so you can go there in drab and get changed - and a lot of the T*girls will be happy to give you advice to get you look more convincing.
Another option is to go to a dressing service - check the trans forums and ask for help locally on that - there are lots of people who will give you a make over and advice on appearance.
One thing I don't recommend is walking around dimly lit streets late at night alone - I know it's tempting because you are less likely to be read - but a lone woman does not walk around dimly lit streets unless she is looking for trouble. That's where you are likely to get someone try to chat you up and that is what happened to a few of my trans friends who have been been attacked.
2006-09-22 18:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Richelle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A good possible way is to talk to your close friends about it and ask them really nicely if they would do it with u. if u were in a group of 20 all crossed dressed (maybe a few large lads to prevent anyone starting anything) then you should be okay and as ur with ur friends u should feel confident too.
2006-09-23 13:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by magic conor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably best at night as lighting will be more sympathetic.
Depends if you are just going for a walk dressed or if you are going for a purpose.
A few drives around dressed may also help calm your nerves.
It also depends how passable you are.
2006-09-22 05:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by bobbi b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With a crossed mind!
2006-09-21 17:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You open your door, put your shoulders back and your head held high and you walk right out onto the street and just be happy.
2006-09-21 20:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never tried it, but I think you should try putting on clothing that was originally designed for the opposite sex and then leave the building.
2006-09-21 18:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by enaronia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out slowly,bra and panties under your clothes,go outside for a walk and enjoy.when you graduate up to being fully enfeme,go for a drive and have your girl clothes under your guy stuff,find a safe place to park and rmove your shirt and pants and go for a drive
2006-09-25 15:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by cindyxdresser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same way you do it when you're dressed as your own gender. No difference.
2006-09-21 17:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friends did it during the night, and they were in a group.
2006-09-21 17:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋