I like someone at my school but don't know how to ask him out without being embarrassed. Any suggestions?
2006-09-21 10:16:08 · 19 answers · asked by Keisha 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
hey girl ! you do not have to be shy if someone interests you ! try to understand what kind of person he is and then ask him simply something, try to have a dialogue with him and try to become friends then you will have occasion to ask him out once you know if you have both something in common ^^
2006-09-21 10:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by yurippe_masuda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, this is 2006. Second, it is good to see that guys don't have to bear this burden alone anymore.
Answer: Timing is EVERYTHING. You will probably strike out less often than a guy so have confidence and stay away from traditional things like dinner or a movie. Try an activity that both of you can partake in rather than an awkward situation where there will be lulls in the conversation. Also go cheap on first dates. ****Try inviting him to do something that may involve some direct competition (competition is great fore play) or you two working as a team toward a common goal (team work is great for bonding). Good luck and just do it! I like basketball because it immediately involves contact.
******PS. Persistence is also a factor but remember the 3 strike rule
2006-09-21 17:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Battery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make conversation a few times (small talk or whatever), and once you are comfortable in making conversation with him, then ask. If you just blurt out "would you like to go out" he might not be prepared for that and might be surprised. Also, if you've talked for a while you will definitely pick up on a vibe if the two of you have a connection. Good luck.
2006-09-21 17:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by fried_twinkie1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first start off by talking to him and becoming friends(that's if your not friends already) depending on how old you guys if you can ask if he wants to go eat out somewhere so you guys can talk it's worth the shot the worse thing he can say is no and if he dose then just say okay maybe next time.
2006-09-21 17:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys absolutely love for girls to ask them out! Number one, its flattering to them! Number two, it's nice for the girl to make the first move instead of the guy every now and then! Ask him when he's by himself and be super confident (even if you feel like crawling under a rug!) What is he interested in? Make the first date something that is fun for the both of you! Good luck!
2006-09-21 17:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by southerngirljw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them first are they with someone right now or have their eyes on anyone. If both answers are no then say "I've had my eyes on you for a while now and I don't want to seem forward but if possible could you and I go out sometimes?"
2006-09-21 18:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to him and ask him what he is doing later and (if he is not doing anything) see if he wants to do something if he says no simply just say okay well maybe some other time, you don't have to make it a big thing and you don't need to be embarrassed at all
2006-09-21 17:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by babyskit5683 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! You shouldn't be embarrassed, just tell him how you feel about him. Then see what he says. If he answers and tells you how he feels, and its good then start a conversation, and ease into asking the question! Good luck!
2006-09-21 17:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2006-09-21 17:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
start a conversation with him. tell him a joke or a short story. then say 'bye, ill see you around". as he is walking away, call him back and say "hey, would you like to go out sometime". wait fir an answer. then after he answers, say cool. then take it from there.
2006-09-21 17:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by lolo123392000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋