I know for a fact that my boyfriend doesnt masturbate at all, hasnt ever looked at porn, etc. I guess he just grew up thinking that was bad/wrong/ or whatever. The thing is, the other day i heard a lecture from a sex ed. type specialist at school that said a guy in his late teens/early 20s actually SHOULD ejaculate 4-7 times a week, otherwise his risk of prostate cancer goes WAY up. I even told my boyfriend that (i dont want him to get cancer! i plan on marrying him!) and he didnt take me seriously---what do i do? Should i just consider myself lucky my boyfriend isnt like a masturbation addict or what?
2006-09-21 10:14:26 · 12 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
He's normal. My husband had a terrible time when he had to produce a sperm sample when we had trouble conceiving, as he had never masturbated before. (He was fine, and now we have a daughter!) He also has no interest in porn. But he's definitely sexy and healthy - he just isn't into those things. Don't hassle him. As long as you're getting your needs filled, don't worry about it. The sex ed guy is a jerk, pardon the pun!
2006-09-21 10:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it's uncommon for a young man to not masturbate, it's not abnormal. However, I do understand your concern about his possible predisposition to prostate cancer. I've never heard that, and am wondering if the lecturer who spoke is correct. You might ask your doctor just to make sure, and if this is a fact, hopefully you can persuade your boyfriend, not necessarily to begin masturbating, but perhaps he needs to be more aware of certain health hazards, and have some consideration for your worries about his health.
I guess I would consider you lucky in a way, because you must be keeping him satisfied....However, if you're not having sex, it might be a good idea to do that. It's not masturbating alone, you know, that produces ejaculation. The end result (ejaculation) is the same whether he engages in auto-eroticism or sex.
2006-09-21 10:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course hes normal. If he don't masturbate then he'll ejaculate during his sleep. (not much though)
You can always replace masturbation with sex. If you don't want him having prostate cancer then have sex with him.
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2006-09-21 10:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by IHaveQuestions 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is absolutely normal. Don't hassle him about it - everyone is different. Be glad he ish't addicted to porn or self stimulation - the other extreme is worse. And I wouldn't put a lot of stock in what that "sex ed. type specialist" either.
2006-09-21 10:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Julep 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think he is not being truthful. You may think you know, but, you don't. A guy is not going to tell you that information on a normal basis, it is just too personal sometimes. Leave him be about it, he'll tell you more if you lay off him some. I guess that your only other option would be to have sex with him 4-7 times a week, huh? Good luck there!
2006-09-21 10:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ca-C 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
if he doesn't masturbate and you don't want him to get cancer then have as much sex as possible sometimes 2 to3 times a day it works for me and I don't masturbate either
2006-09-21 10:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sex ed specialist was an idiot btw. masturbation is a personal choice and that is all it is.
2006-09-21 10:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Show me a guy who says he doesn't or hasn't masturbated and I'll show you a liar. Sorry, don't believe it!!!
2006-09-21 11:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no thats not normal..most people do but if he doesnt want to then he doesnt want to, cant force him to but yeah it is good that he doesnt cuz yeah i know some people who do it like 5 times a day..now thats really not normal..so be thankful
2006-09-21 10:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you really plan on marrying him, then he should be too worn out to masturbate now shouldn't he???
2006-09-21 10:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by Man in Black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋