2006-09-21 10:09:25 · 20 answers · asked by unforgiving 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no way
2006-09-21 22:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Look, let's be honest. Making sex into this super special "gift" we give when we make love is taking something very natural and very simple and turning it into mind control for the religious police. God wouldn't have created sex if he didn't want it to exist. If you want to have a good marriage, you better know that the sex is mutual, compatible, respectful, fun, inventive, creative, and loving. Sex is not that big a deal, but when it goes wrong in a marriage, it is a very big deal. Use condoms. Only be with people you care for and trust. Don't treat your virginity like the Holy Grail. Be smart about it, but lighten up and learn real lessons from real life, not sterile lessons from a bunch of uptight people who want to control how you think.
2006-09-21 17:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's usually best to wait. If your religious expecially. But sex can often be missused and sometimes after it happens the other no longer wants you cuz theres no longer any mystery. Also sex tends to form a bond that if later you break up the pain of that break up is amplified many times more by the peice of you that you gave them via sex.
2006-09-21 17:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by PrincessB 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I didnt but then we have been together for 6 years now and do plan on getting married. I think that only matters if you are seriously religious. Just dont go sleeping around and spreading diseases.
2006-09-21 17:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Brianna'sMomma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i was raped at 14 because i guess i gave mixed signals...Whatever that means..But I waited for consensual sex till i got married and it was the best experience of my life.Remember that......
2006-09-21 18:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes. Reasons: 1 BABY 2 religion 3 STD 4 unnecessary attachment, if you do break up its already bad enough if you didn't do it
FOLLOW YOUR GUT and don't do anything stupid
2006-09-21 18:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by phoenix1442004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah even though it might be hard - God blesses it the most I think. Then when you do get married, you're all crazy hot for you're spouse!
2006-09-21 17:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by branches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! you become more mature when your married! also, you should have fun while you can. a baby would mean big changes!
2006-09-21 17:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if both of you waited. Otherwise NO!
2006-09-21 19:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by ooopancakeooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some ways yes and in some ways no it depends on how old u are and what ur kind of relation ship u are in
2006-09-21 17:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no, dont wait. you always test drive a car before you buy, well you have to test drive a man..
2006-09-21 17:16:18 · answer #11 · answered by countrygalsline 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋