my boyfriend for 7 years has promise me to get me my engament ring by the end this month we have 4boys togther from the ages 6year old to 8mo old the old reason why he told me this was becuase i felt him so he told me that he was going to buy me my engament ring but is he doing it becuase wants to or becuase he feels that iam pushing him into doing it but i thking is about time to get married i dont know
2006-09-21 09:59:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You already had 4 kids with him-who cares about an engagement ring! Use the money to buy food!
2006-09-21 10:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should pray, I cannot tell you what to do but if it has been seven years, and you are still with him---and the fact that you have kids together I realize makes it harder. But I would not want to marry someone that did not want to marry me. I would leave him and ask god to help me make it. I can say it, because I have been married, and I have had a child out of wedlock. And I made it!! Without him for a husband. Women as a whole have a hard time learning to love themselves. That is a must, in order to get repsect, we must learn to respect, and love ourselves first-----------when it comes to men, our children we remain forever--men change--that is why we have to get a relationship with God and ourselves--I was hardheaded too. I am now over 50 and at peace with me. Good luck
2006-09-21 10:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by SWRK student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have four children together--when did it occur to you to get married?
If he wasn't ready to commit when the first child was born, what makes you think he'll commit now?
You both need to get some communicating accomplished. If you really want to be engaged, then propose to him. It seems like you two seem to be tied down after so many children; are you staying together for the sake of the kids?!
The internet makes it tough to express emotion, but it seems like this question is just so emotionless. If you really want to get married to this man, you would have done something about it already.
2006-09-21 10:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you've been together for 7 years and don't have an engagement ring, all you are gettting is a line of baloney...
2006-09-21 10:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly you should just let it be what it is I mean you already have kids you guys are together i know it's nice to have the ring but don't push him because then it wont really be from his heart it will be from fear of the consequences... good luck
2006-09-21 10:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't push this man. If a man really wants to marry you, you wont have to push him, he'll run.
and the marriage will only end up in divorce court. that's more money out of your pocket.
2 hell with him, put him on child support and take care of your kids.
2006-09-21 10:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by downsouthchick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont need a ring to say you love each other you have beautiful children together who knows one day it will happen dont rush into things or keep nagging he will do it when the time is right
2006-09-21 10:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by dawn l 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
after 4 children....yes.....he should marry you. if he doesn't get you a ring and a date by the end of the month, then maybe you need to make a decision.
2006-09-21 10:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by reggie s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know you are ready all girls are ready but give him time. Just hope that he not telling you this to keep you stringing along so no one else will take you away. But he really is probably scared of taking that big of a step.Give him time.
2006-09-21 10:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you. It should have happened a long time ago. If he loves you enough to have four boys with you he should love you enough to get married.
2006-09-21 10:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by Faith M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋