there's this girl at school and she's been telling people that i'm a slut and everything, but when i asked her why she was just like because i hate you! i barely talk to her! i live my life and she lives hers until now.so wat should i do?thanx
2006-09-21 09:58:03 · 19 answers · asked by basketball_dancediva 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've delt with this first hand recently this year. Except the girl is my ex best friend. Shes probably spreading rumors about you because she's jealous of you. Just dont take it to heart hunni. She can say what ever she wants but it doesn't mean people will listen or believe her.
2006-09-21 10:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will run into these types all your life. The ones that think they are better than everyone. They are in High school and college and they will be there when you get your big job. there is no way to handle these types cause they seem to win all the time. You can only live for yourself and have your own friends, true friends will know you for who you are and not for what some stuck up b*tch says about you. Learn to develop a thick skin so what she says doesn't bother you cause if it bothers you she gets a bigger jolly. Never let her see you hurt or cry. Best of Luck continue being the great person you are! Those types tend to be unhappy unloved people.
2006-09-21 17:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by bramblerock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you done to anger this girl?
Are you more popular?
Are you in competition for attention from any particular quarter?
Do you dress in such a manner that she would be jealous of?
Evaluate yourself to try and find an answer. It won't hurt, Even though it may nor provide nd answer.
2006-09-21 17:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the girl.. obviously she's jealous of something. Don't worry about it, just keep living your life the way you are, and don't speak to her anymore. She wants to be a *****, let her, it's not going to get her anywhere.
2006-09-21 17:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just ignore her, she may be jealous of you, just go and do what ever you have to do, pay her no mind. join some clubs, keep busy, and study to be good at all of your classes. Don"t say anything to her. You are going to be alright!
2006-09-21 17:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to deal with people like that is NOT to deal with them. Ignore them. I know it's hard but if you keep responding that's just faning the flames making them bigger. The way to deal with ignorance is to just ignore it.
2006-09-21 17:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, girls like that are insecure and need someone to put down to lift themselves up. Don't let her know she got to you shake it off. Good Luck
2006-09-21 17:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely lady 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is like, so totally jaelous probably because you are so oh my Gosh, like totally like hot stuff.
You should like both stop like wasting everyone's time and like should so not use the internet like ever again.
Thank you
2006-09-21 17:09:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the goofball!
2006-09-21 17:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to aviod them as much as poosible.
actjust as them not in the bad way.
and get some back up.if you all confront them theel back down
2006-09-21 17:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by cutieamorousgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋