he was cheating does that count as an exscuse
2006-09-21 09:36:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He' s fortunate that all he got was slapped.
2006-09-21 09:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question, you cannot touch or strike anyone unless your life has been threatened. Second question, no excuse because he cheated, if he cheated and you did not like that, then leave him.
You know when we answer these questions we tend to be on the legal side, the correct side. But in reality if this would have happened to one of us we would feel and do exactly or worse than you did. The reason I am telling you this is because people can rationalize things when they are on the opposite end, but I am sure most people, just like me, that answered your question, wouldn't even question the slap or the mark on this cheaters face.
Unless you are facing criminal charges put by him on you, forget about it.
*****p.s. if criminal charges....you know he pushed you first.*******
2006-09-21 09:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that there is no exscuse for slapping even if he was cheating u should talk to him and warn him nicely about cheating not slapping him ,u should apologize from him and told him not to do it again and all u want is for his benifit and also tell him that the happiness of wining will fade away if he wins by cheating and he will never feel happy as if he wins because of his knoledge and skills.........thax
2006-09-21 09:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by blue pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of feeling guilty try and ask yourself ....Why did he cheat on you? Was it some thing you did or didn't do or is he just a cheating .............Than if it's his fault give him a harder slap and tell him to get lost!
2006-09-21 09:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by telis_gr1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hellz no what is there to feel guilty about he would have gotten more than a slap from me he should consider himself luck. Cause I would have put my foot in his a#$ and wrote him a check his a#$ can't cash!
2006-09-21 09:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hitting someone is never a good thing ,whatever the excuse,i can understand fully your anger tho.What you must do is walk away and have no futher contact with him..never take him back..he will not be the first man to be slapped,and you will not be the first womna to slap him!
2006-09-21 09:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it ok for him to slap you? well if its ok for him to slap you than its plent fine that you slapped him.
what he did wasnt right but getting phisical and vilont is not the answer, its not going to cnange what he did and its just going to give him somthing to hold against you.
2006-09-21 09:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by midesweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that's doesn't make it better!
i personally would like to slap you for still being with him!
there is nothing that can amend a cheater... i don't think i would feel guity either! well maybe at self for still being with him!
come on girl you desirve a hole lot better then that!
Mad luv
2006-09-21 09:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel sorry he better be happy that's all he got was a slap cause If it was me GIRL all HELL would of had broke loose. Tell him to suck it up.
2006-09-21 09:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by ebonikaf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um ask urself this if u where cheating n he slapped u would it be ok. the answer is no....violence is never the answer.
there r many more ways 2 make someone lifes hell
2006-09-21 09:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldnt slap anyone without being slapped back. i doubt if you want to be slapped so yeah...feel guilty. if he cheated then bounce...roll out....because you will never trust him again
2006-09-21 09:40:38 · answer #11 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋