my boyfriends mother (who I do not get along with at all) has moved into my house with us. The bad part is, I'm 8 months pregnant and don't feel like being bothered or having my space invaded. What should I do? My 4yo son thinks she's just visiting but she hasn't given us a moving out date. should I stay and continue to feel like a prisonor in my own home? or should i go to a family members house and wait for her to leave? please help me.....
2006-09-21 09:25:27 · 9 answers · asked by corinne n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's ur house - tell her that she needs to give you a definite moving date.
2006-09-21 09:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she put you in shackles? why is it u'r feeling like a prisoner? i think the best thing u could do would be to try and get along. Your babies coming soon, and who knows maybe she can be of some help. It will also be good for the baby to bond with grandma. There is no other kind of love , like the love of a grandmother. I think u'r being a bit selfish . There should be no reason why you can't get along. no matter whats happened in the past. You still have alot of time that can be spent enjoying one another. Give the old girl another chance, after all she is family.
2006-09-21 16:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, is it your house or your boyfriends? Was this situation discussed before she moved in? Is it a temporary situation?
It is your home so you shouldn't feel like a prisoner. She is a guest. Go about your normal routine. If this is going to be a long term relationship with the father of your child you need to be able to get a long with it's grandmother or at least be civil to one another.
2006-09-21 16:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Yvonne P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave your home. Talk to your spouse and if he wants to keep the peace he will talk to his mother, and she should be gone shortly after that. And if that don't work you have a casual conversation with her about what do she likes in a place of her own. And if that goes well you can offer her your assistance in looking for one. But, just remember she may just be their to help you out. Find a common ground were you and her can get along and make it work for family sake
2006-09-21 20:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by coreytony0311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets think about this first.
Who's house is it? Who's paying the rent/mortgage? who's name is on the lease/dead/morgage? You? your b/f? both?
If its all in your name only then you need to talk with b/f and decide how long you want to give "deal old mom" then talk with her and ask her what her plans are. If she says she doen't know then let her know her move out date.
If its in both your names then you two need to come to an agreement what to do. Then let mom know about it.
If its in his name only. Then you (and your son) are guests of your b/f and need to defer to him as to how long his mom stays. You have no right to ask her to leave when you are also a guest in his home.
2006-09-21 16:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your bf has his mother there so that when you give birth she'll be there to help out. Believe me when a new baby comes home you'll need all the help in the world and maybe you may see her in a better light when baby is home.
2006-09-21 16:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with boyfriend and find out how long she is staying, how uncomfortable that must be for you. Good luck.
No, i would not leave my home. She wont be there for ever.
2006-09-21 16:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do neither, tell her she's the one that has to go. Since she won't set a date to move out, set one for her. It's your house, take charge of it.
2006-09-21 16:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your house if you do not want her to live there that's all you have to say you don't even have to be rude about it
2006-09-21 16:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋