why do some women fall in love with men who are incarcerated for years and then get pissed off when he comes home and decides that he doesn't want to be with them anymore for whatever reason. Is it because they feel they have wasted too many years of their life for someone, who they find out later really didn't love them.
2006-09-21 09:17:23 · 8 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know someone who waited on someone for 8 years. He was only home for about a year and a half before he decided he wanted to get himself and move on.
2006-09-21 09:39:56 · update #1
Because SOME women are desperate to find real love that they will even consider being with someone who is incapable of giving real love. Women, when a man is incarcerated, they are willing to do anything to get that "fix", that love that some of them can't get in jail. They will do and say anything for outside communication. They are lonely and confused. Don't fall for it because when they get out, they are gonna need money, a place to stay and someone to take care of them "until they can get back on their feet" and when they do finally get back on their feet, they will leave you and go to someone else.
2006-09-21 09:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no relationship when it comes to someone being incarcerated unless they are married. If they are not married you can 4get it . Most of the time guys who are locked up just need someone to help pass the time by and these girls out here falls for it and truly believe they are in love when in reality its just a game.
2006-09-21 17:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. These kind of men base thier current relationship by thier past relationships. They feel like they need to end things as soon as they feel threated by your moods or deeds because they are not going to give you the opportunity to hurt them like they have been hurt in the past. They feel threatened by any woman that is independent and can think for herself. They judge every one that they are with by someone from thier past and it just isn't fair to the woman or even to himself.
2006-09-21 16:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Renee E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my ex's was (well actually is again on his 3rd time I think) in prison and I tried to wait on him, but I couldn't. It is hard to have a relationship with someone when they are in prison! Once I got out of the relationship I saw how unhealthy that really is!
2006-09-21 16:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I'd be pissed off. All that time wasted on a criminal, being there for him emotionally when no one else was...I don't know but I'd probably bust his head and end up in jail myself...
2006-09-21 16:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cons will tell women exactly what they want to hear and have ulterior motives for doing so. It's all about what's in it for them.
2006-09-21 16:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't tell who the players are; your sentences run together. Punctuate please, so we can know what you're saying.
2006-09-21 16:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT???
2006-09-21 16:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Megan H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋