Me and my ex were 2gether for 2years and the whole time we never used condoms, then he cheated on me and i ended it, but i recently became friends with the girl. and she admitted to me that they dont use condoms either, the week b4 he slept with her, he slept with me, i got checked out, but how do i get her 2 get checked out.....?
2006-09-21 09:14:36 · 10 answers · asked by vicky s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the thing is hes her first as shes onli 16 and he was my first, imagine if she does have something, and doesnt catrch it in time
2006-09-21 09:18:11 · update #1
we didnt use condoms, coz we was engaged and she was only a bit on the side, which im glad i found out otherwise we would continue to wear no condom. but we were gonna start trying for a baby
2006-09-21 09:19:43 · update #2
i have been checked out
2006-09-21 09:21:59 · update #3
Unless you found something, why does it matter to you? I might not understand the question fully.
2006-09-21 09:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend. You both know you slept with the guy while you were dating. Just say, hey, I remember you telling me you didn't use condoms with him. I never did either and unfortunately I do know of some other girls who never used them with him either. I got myself checked out and I just think it'd be smart if you did too. We all know where he's been but we don't know where those other girls have been. But don't press the issue. Its her decision. All you can do as a friend is warn her.
2006-09-21 09:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her he's nasty and she needs to get checked out because he sounds like awhore and aids can lay dormant for 10 years ya know
2006-09-21 09:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple...no check up = no sex.
Again from now on just use a condom, it wont kill you, not using one will!
2006-09-21 09:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is get checked out yourself,if everything is fine then leave it,but..
if you do have an S.T.D,then tell them both,together
2006-09-21 09:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her to. Hard but its the only way.
2006-09-21 09:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Izzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite her over, knock her over the head, tie her up in duck tape, throw her in your car, then drive to N.Y. to a clinic....that should do it!
2006-09-21 09:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have anything, probably she doesn't either. your only responcibility is to yourself. she'll take care of her own business.
2006-09-21 09:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by ashley f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her youve had sex with him too and your just saying this for her Protection
2006-09-21 09:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by nodaybuttoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why?
do ya have the clap or something?
If not then why worry?
2006-09-21 09:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋