ok i just moved to a new school and i have to dorm there to attend. i'm a junior and the school is the state arts school of mississippi (MSA) and my best friend at the end of school last year was worried that she'd lose me, we saw each other all the time! 24/7, either i was at her place or she was at mine or we were out together.. well now it seems like i'm trying to talk to her but she doesn't care. i don't want to lose her as a friend, she's like a sister and has been with me through numerous tragedies! how can i get her to listen and show her how much i really care before she completely forgets about me?
2006-09-21 08:49:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is sad that u moved so she is jelous ok get a new one
2006-09-21 08:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by mimitou26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a copy of this letter! I was sent to boarding school my freshman yaer, 8 hours from home and went through the same thing. The good news is u will most likly meet some new very good friends. But all in all just be open and honest with her. Tell her how u feel and let her know just how important she is to u. The rest is up to fate. Hang in there and enjoy this wounderful experiance that u have been given. It seems hard now but later in life it will all be worth the struggle. U r very lucky to get to experiance such a opertunity. Take full advantage of all that this will offer. If u have a chance invite her to come and stay with u in the dorm for a couple of nights so she can see just what it is u are up aginst. It will help her feel included aswell as give her a tast of what it is u have to deal with.
2006-09-21 15:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend and I went our separate ways after high school. She went away to college and I felt like I had lost her, we started e-mailing each other and had a good talk about it was time to grow up, we came to an agreement that just because we did not talk to each other every day that did not mean that we did not mean that we were no longer friends. We also understood that we could at anytime say I love you but I don't have time to talk right now. Now that she is done with school we spend alot more time together. You just need to tell your friend how you are feeling and try to come to an understanding that things are changing.
2006-09-21 15:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by vieveia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK one shes just really sad that u moved away a good thing to do is call her and tell her to come up for the weekend and then get her to come and meet ur new friends so that she doesn't feel left out of ur life and invite ur other old friends to but dont forget to make a new bestfriend cuz u can always have more then one me and ma friends are all really close and are all like sisters and when we were threatened with sumone moving we throw a big party for them leaving and a bigger one celebrating the great new life she has and the fun times for her and us to come people just seem to deal with moving differently and i deal with it like being sad but not making them feel bad becuz they cant help the circumstances
2006-09-21 16:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by ~*!Tish!*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just back off a little bit. Being around someone 24/7 gets unnerving and can really put a strain on the friendship. If she is a real friend, you guys will stay friends, if not it's her loss.
2006-09-21 15:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is undoubtedly really difficult for you, but it is a fairly common situation. She may feel like you've abandoned her and in order to protect herself from being hurt more, she has distanced herself. I would speak to her directly about it, though avoid being confrontational. Tell her you love her and value her friendship and would like her to tell you why it seems she is distancing herself from you. If she's as good a friend as you have described, she will be willing to talk to you about what's going on. She may not even realize she's doing it. Best of luck.
2006-09-21 15:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email her when you can or send a card from tme to time.
I hate when that happens and it has happened to me many times and probably will many more. Hang in there and just be the best friend you can be, you can't force anything and sometimes people need to move on for their own reasons and it has nothing to do with you.
2006-09-21 15:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you don't talk to someone everyday don't make them not your friend!
my bf from highschool i still talk to! we don't talk everyday but we talk when needed!
just call her everyone in a while and don't sound like your despreate! just remember to grow up and when you do you will find that your friends will be right by your side!
you can make her listen that's her choice!
i don't think she doesn't care but if your this worried ask her!
she is your friend right? if so then you can ask her friends don't get mad at how you feel! at least not true friends!
Mad luv
2006-09-21 15:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your whole life you meet people and they come and go and if you are lucky enough you will have friends that last a life time. Just send her a card here and there, call her, visit when you go home and let her know that you are always there for her.
2006-09-21 15:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by Didi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can keep trying to talk to her oer u can find a new friend .i know how u feel ive been there before so u will get over it not in a bad way but if u think she forgot about u u should try to ur in a new place with new people!!!!!loive ur life !!!!!like i am
2006-09-21 15:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably thinks that you will get new friends at your new school and forget about her, so she is ignoring you to avoid having to talk about the situation.
2006-09-21 15:57:28 · answer #11 · answered by kellyhalkyard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋