Guys, can U answer a personal question?

Question

My former boyfriend told me that during a male orgasm, the flow of semen cannot be stopped once it starts. Unlike when U are doing a pee and can stop part way through. Is this true for all of U? Or can some of U control the flow. Also how much warning do you get before you start to emit?
Thanx

Answer 1

Some people don't know much about physiology, so read your responses with a grain of salt. Seminal fluid actually starts flowing in many males soon after erection, with the first phase often known as cowpers fluid--clear sticky pre-ejaculate. Comes out on its on, not sure if it can be stopped at all. During orgasm, the cowpers and other seminal fluids, along with sperm cells, mix and forced out by muscle contractions. No, they are not lined up in the head or the shaft of the penis as someone said. In a full orgasmic state, I don't think a guy can shut off this flow---it is basically on automatic and a guy is using different valves than when he pees--in fact a guy should not be able to pee at all when he is fully aroused and erect, the pee valve is shut and the seminal fluid valves are open.
I also wonder why any guy would want to control the flow. First, that is part of the overall affect of the orgasmic state, why would you want to screw that up, isn't that the whole goal of the sex?
Second: if you are trying to restrict it with the hope of curbing the possibility of pregnancy--it only takes one drop to make babies, and even the clear cowpers fluid that comes out early may have some residual sperm cells in it and can cause pregnancy.

Answer 2

If any male would WANT TO stop the flow of semen during ejaculation, it could be possible though PC muscle exercises.

Many males who practice tantric sex techniques and PC muscle exercises will tell you you can somewhat control the flow of semen, although maybe not stop it completelly 1/2 way through ejaculation / orgasm.

Also, there is a small muscle situated between the scrotum and the an*s of the male which apparently (when applying the right amount of pressure at the precise area) can completely prevent an ejaculation from occuring while providing an orgasm. But this may be somewhat painful for some folks (like myself) who probably don't have the right "technique"

PC Exercises:
While Kegel exercises can help you last longer, they can also aid in increasing sperm volume. There are a host of exercises you can do to keep your penis in great shape and shoot like a champion.
(Butter's note: PC muscle exercises have proven to help reduce prostate troubles in advancing age, but I have yet to see improvements in my ejaculate's volume through this method)

Exercise regularly.Exercising your PC muscle can help you shoot further than ever before.Read How to Exercise your PC muscles at http://www.ayurvediccure.com/penis_enlargement_stretching.htm

Answer 3

Your boy friend is right. There is a point of no return and when the sensation gets to that point then the autonomic nervous system takes over and all the mechanisms for causing an ejaculation begin and like a sneeze cannot be stopped. If you want to be observant there are some signs you can look for. The testicles will pull up near the base of the penis and will rotate slightly, the scrotum skin gets tight and thick, at this point the boy can stop.

Answer 4

It can be stopped. Stopping is one way to help men who ejaculate too soon.
A man can tell when he is about to reach his climax and if he has to stop before it happens and pulls out. I am not saying this is always easy to do. He relaxes and can start all over again. By doing this he can go longer in the future. Once the flow is started there is nothing he can do to stop it. A man usually has enough warning time but most chose not to act about it - we just want to release.

Answer 5

I don't think that you can stop the flow of semen, I have never been able to. But you get a fair amount of warning before you emit.

Answer 6

Ejaculation involves involuntary muscle spasm - that is, no it cannot be controlled once started, except possibly by an explosion going off nearby or something else that scares your body into trying to flee instead of copulate. (I think blowing up the garage would be a little extreme, just to stop him coming).

Most men know for a few seconds that ejaculation is inevitable - certainly long enough to give you warning to move your head if you are giving oral sex to your boyfriend. However, it may not be enough warning for him to withdraw completely during vaginal or anal sex, and in any case, pre-ejaculate can contain sperm - so if your concern is pregnancy or HIV, you should have him wear a condom every time.

Answer 7

I would agree with your former boyfriend. Indeed once it starts it cannot be stopppppppppppppped! However it can be controlled once you get a warning - which is about 15 seconds before emitting

Answer 8

Once it is truly coming up, it is at the point of no return, however, there is a spot under the scrotum where pressure can be applied firmly just before orgasm starts and the urge will succumb. Personally, it's never worked for me. Maybe I am not doing it right, or maybe it is a hoax (although I have heard that it works).

Answer 9

Can't stop the power full flow of the erupting volcano, other wise he can just hold his private tight, once pulled out and release back to earth.

Don't worry i'm in the process of inventing penis emergency plug to insert inside the penis, or a cap..

Answer 10

Ejaculation can be considered premature when it occurs 30 seconds to 4 minutes into sex, depending on different cultures, countries and experts. Behavioural techniques can help you delay orgasm. Learn here https://tr.im/OM7xv
These include the start-and-stop method and the squeeze technique. A combination of these techniques along with sexual counselling and medication (either using an anaesthetic cream or an oral tablet) is recommended.