I used to know a woman name Virginia and everytime I email her, she writes mean things. I recently lost my job and she thinks it is my fault that I lost it when I am not the big boss of the department. Also yesterday she emailed me telling me i won't be able to find a job when I did nothing wrong to her. Any ideas?
2006-09-21 08:14:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Also she suggested I go to sales, but everyone who knows me well can tell I am not a people person.
2006-09-21 08:15:34 · update #1
first of all BLOCK her email so that you don't have to read her crap. why do you put up with it? she is not Friend. Ignore her and start job hunting for something you like....
2006-09-21 08:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you even talk to this b i t c h she clearly has no respect for you and you do not deserve this type of treatment. She has an inferiority complex she leaches on other people downfalls to make herself feel better. She has little self esteem and the only way she knows how to make herself feel worthfull is to ridicule those she sees as weaker than her. Prove her wrong and dish it back but be witty about it mock her there is nothing more irritating than making somebody else look stupid. Trust me she will be mad at you but really do you care you dont deserve that crap.
2006-09-21 15:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by LT. DAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has other problems in her life that she is unable to deal with and is transferring her anger from there to you, probably to other people also. Don't take it personally, just ignore her. She doesn't sound like a very nice person, so stop emailing her. Let her get in touch with you, and only reply to her if she is civil.
You don't need a person like that in your life. It's clearly not good for you if you have to come online and ask for advice from complete strangers!
2006-09-21 15:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by CiarᮠM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you why she is like that unless you & her had a bad past relationship or something . But I can tell you this you need to break all ties from her cause life doesn't need negative people to encourage you to fail. I maen it's already hard enough.WOW!
2006-09-21 15:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
V is obviously a jerk. Block her from your email. Anybody who would bring you down like that does not deserve any involvement in your life.
2006-09-21 15:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Potcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like jealousey to me. Why even email her back if she's so mean. With friends like her you diffently don't need any enemies.
2006-09-21 15:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHES JUST A NEGATIVE PERSON ,CUT HER OUT YOUR LIFE YOU DONT NEED HER.your circle of companions is a reflection of yourself.
2006-09-21 15:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by sam a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be assertive and ask her why she is acting this way, and tell her no you are not going to sales,
2006-09-21 15:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might sound "mean" but maybe you're the problem.
2006-09-21 15:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by Spud55 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you her friend if she is so mean.
move on!
2006-09-21 15:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by scra99y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋