any (non sexual) ways to help him relax once he comes home?
2006-09-21 08:14:33 · 24 answers · asked by cyunos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know how most you yahoo-ers think, I just didn't want a long list of "possitions" if you know what I mean.
2006-09-21 08:26:04 · update #1
Non-Sexual??? Do you want his day to get better or what???
2006-09-21 08:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by jb 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Have him change into some comfy clothes when he gets home from work. Make him dinner and after dinner give him a back rub. If he likes baths, run a bath for him with some lavender oil or anything else you may have that may be relaxing. Give him a glass of wine while he's in the tub. Aaahhh, that sounds relaxing to me.
2006-09-21 08:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by gel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all I want to compliment you on actually thinking about how your husband feelings after a bad. I am a guy we are generally expected just suck it up and deal with it and not get any special treatment when we come home. For me, I would love just get a nice back rub and just some silence would work after a bad day.
2006-09-21 09:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by ????????????????? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a beer mug in the freezer so when he gets home he can have a cold mug of beer. Have the news paper ready for him to read. Then tell him you are going out for about a half hour to let him unwind from the day. Then come back and cook him a nice dinner. Then go for a walk.
2006-09-21 08:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by b_iceman2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you said non sexual but girl what if he needs to be held and kissed to make him know someone really loves him. He is a guy. Hug and kiss him tell him you love him. If it leads further then let it go that way. If you don't let it happen then his day will have just gotten worse.
Let him lead if it happens then it happens.
Have a meal for him and a glass of wine. Be there listen and let what happens happen.
2006-09-22 00:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have time to stop by a store? I would get him something little like a candy bar or a football magazine. What will make him feel better is knowing you will always put in extra effort to make him feel better. Plus everyone likes a little chocolate and something to read so they can zone out.
2006-09-21 08:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
constructive, supply him his area if he desires it. It would not sound such as you probably did something incorrect although. while my husband comes homestead from a nasty day at artwork I do in simple terms my ultimate to no longer whinge a pair of bunch of petty stuff as quickly as he walks interior the door. and that i urge him to play and visit with our toddlers.
2016-10-15 06:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back rubs are good but you are thinking like a woman, when my husband is having a bad day when I take him upstairs afterwards he can't even remember what he was angry about. Guys like sex that is just how it is.
2006-09-21 08:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like everyone else said his favorite meal and a back massage and possibly go rent his fav movie or something and make him a cake or bake some cookies (my husband loves cookies and i make them for him all the time cuz he has a tough job)
2006-09-21 08:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jenna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His favorite dinner?
Plans for the evening out away from the kids?
His slippers/robe ready for him?
A shoulder massage?
2006-09-21 08:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by snddupree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In this Order:
Beer
Steak Dinner
Porn Movie (Generally lesbians get the best response from a guy)
and finally if your up for it:
a reanactment of the porn movie
2006-09-21 08:18:42 · answer #11 · answered by halliwell_whitelighter 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋