My BF got accepted to a University across the state (7 hours to be exact). He's been gone for just over a month and its getting really hard. I just wanna know any ideas on how to manage this and any ideas on how to make it easier.
2006-09-21 08:08:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Call him, email him, write letters, etc. Just because he is far away doesn't mean it is over. It might really do you both good too. There is a saying, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder". This might be what you both need to realize that you are the ones meant for each other for the rest of your lives. You also might send him a "care package" with goodies inside it that he really likes after some time has gone by so he knows you still care. Did he leave you anything that will make you feel close to him?? Put it under your pillow and pretend that he is there. You can make it. After I asked my wife to marry me, the Army sent me 1,500 miles away. We eventually got back into the same state again and we have been married for 28 years since then. You can do this.
2006-09-21 08:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and he are planning to be together soon, as in living close together, you may make it. if not, if you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, your best bet is to walk away. it's hard, but it'll be harder when one of you ends up cheating on the other, which is pretty likely to happen, especially if either one of you likes to go out to parties, stuff like that. i've been there, done that. i was the one who DIDN'T cheat. my girl was very outgoing and as a result, she had guys chasing her all the time. she couldn't stand up to temptation. i could. anyway, like i said, if he's going to be around in the near future, stay with him. if he's not, let him go. just remember to stay strong either way.
2006-09-21 15:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by That Guy Drew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him everyday. Tell him how much you care, and above all else, don't give up.
2006-09-21 15:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him or better set him free, you only got 1 life . Don't strain your relationship like that when hes thru with school if it is still good go for it
2006-09-21 15:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mr.Obvious 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋