i was engaged to this guy for 6 years we were also living together i found out he was cheating on me and he told me he didnt love me like he should what the hell would a guy mean by not like he should after 6 years
2006-09-21 08:07:11 · 16 answers · asked by dkay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He means that he does care about u, but not enough to be your life partner. Sometimes after a few years people tire of one another. same old thing gets boring. if he's young, he's probably not ready to have only u for the rest of his life. At least he's being honest with u, and letting u down easy. That shows right there that he does have some kind of feelings for u. He can't really put it any more simpler. you should love someone enough not to cheat on them, if your going to marry them. At least u can get out of the relationship before you get married and start a family
2006-09-21 08:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by penelope 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it could mean that he thinks the world of you and think that you deserve someone better than him but yeah it can also lead to heartache.
I think he thinks that he doesnt or might not deserve you lol BUT i might be wrong but i have said that too and that what i meant. I just thought that i might make her sad and unhappy if she knew the real me some guys find it hard to bring someone close. T-T but yeah i gues thats onley in fairytales lol hes a slag if he cheated on you a woman is precious and should be respected :)
2006-09-21 08:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone discovered something about the other that they do not wish to face for the rest of their life. At least you found this out now and not after a wedding. Someone needs to immediately move out and go on with life.
2006-09-21 08:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he knows what he did wrong by letting the best of him overcome the difference between what's right and what's wrong. Being together for 6 years does make one understand how important the other is within the relationship. I guess his fantasy overpowered his love...
2006-09-21 08:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by T_Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's starting to think of you as a sister, mother, or housekeeper. Probably is getting bored of the sex, usually they do. Think they can find something different elsewhere. Ask him just what he means and demand an answer. Good or bad!
2006-09-21 08:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He means (sadly) that he is not in-love with you, a nice way of saying he "loves" you more in the "friend" way. No more romantic feelings, try to move on from that! Sorry.
2006-09-21 08:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by POPPY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey child, it is time for you to pack your stuff, and get out of their. Do not waste any more of your life, and time, on this loser. Start to live for yourself, you come first. Do the things that makes you happy, and don't be saying to yourself, I miss him! Remember he is just not that much into you!!
2006-09-21 08:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for most adult males (such as me) previous relationships are precisely that. interior the previous. we dont open up extremely for the most section, or maybe then no longer about somethin that tentative. he may have had a pair undesirable breakups or somethin like that. merely believe in him and all will be positive.
2016-11-23 13:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means he can't fully commit....he loves you yes...but he can't keep his paws off others...he will most likely cheat again...get out and stay as friends...but find a man who will love AND respect you as well as fully commit....
2006-09-21 08:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by DoveMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit the door. He loves you like a friend.
2006-09-21 08:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋