Because of my work I must travel all the time to different countries and specialy in Far East. Everytime I am spending more than a month in every country. Because of that I use to spend my time with prostitutes, and having great parties, orgies and things like that. Since I got married I stoped doing that not because i don't want to cheat but because I am scared that I might get sick from one of the girls and after I give it to my wife wich I love with all my heart. But a few months now I realy miss that life that i had, and it's very difficult to keep my self from going back. What can I do? Please give me a way out of it!
2006-09-21 08:07:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, they tell people to smoke to avoid the situations in which they would normally find themselves with a cigarette. If you really mean it, then find another job.
2006-09-21 08:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by Heather B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you're a smart man, you would have selected a bride that would share in your lust for sexual adventure... then you bring her along and both of you can enjoy the debauchery.
however if this isn't the case, then it's up to you to decide if being married is what you really want. if your love for your wife is more important than your "escapades" then you have your answer right there. but whatever you choose, be a man and don't cheat on your wife. because while you might think you're clever, there's about ten other guys just waiting for you to slip up. got it?
good.
2006-09-21 15:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..sounds like you're an addict .... My best advise is to tell your wife about the internal struggle you are going through. She might be open to help you get through this. I would look into changing your career ... find a job that keeps you in town or take your wife with you on your business trips!
2006-09-21 15:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up you are married and took vows...would you like it if your wife cheated and slept around while you are married. That is your past life,leave it behind. If you love your wife with all your heart like you claim, then be faithful and don't hang out in those areas or get a different job.
2006-09-21 15:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like DEVELOPING a habit, it takes time and practice. Just stop. Stop going, don't go back - like an addiction, you have to get through the withdrawal period, and before you know it, you won't be craving it anymore.
And set aside the time you WOULD have spent with whores, spend it writing emails home to your wife, writing love letters to your wife, etc. You just have to break the cycle.
2006-09-21 15:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by KB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your wife, it should not be difficult. Keep yourself out of those situations. Find other things to do when you travel. If possible, take your wife with you.
2006-09-21 15:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by badgoodgirl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your wife get a few of her girl friends together for you.
2006-09-21 15:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your penis removed and let your wife keep it in a jar next to her bed.That way when you are gone she can still use it.Besides if you are still doing the sex with multiple partners it's going to fall off anyway,some nasty diseases out there.
2006-09-21 15:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the same type of job that does npt require that much travelling or take your wife with you...
2006-09-21 15:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just either need to be single. Unless you're a real a**hole and don't care about the feelings of people who trust you, you can't have your cake and eat it too.
2006-09-21 15:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋