Would you say something if you knew a friend had sniff your ladies panties from the dryer?
Long story short a friend was over the house and had spilled something on his shirt and needed a new one so I told him to just grab one of my white shirts out of the dryer that had just finished
( I was upstairs changing my daughter ) and my wife happened to walk by the laundy room while he was getting the shirt and caught him sniffing one of her thongs from the dryer. He did not see her.
Do I say anything to him about it or just let it go as him being a damn weirdo? I am torn about what to do...... on one hand I want to smack the s hit out of him but on the other hand was what he did that bad?
I'd love to her both men and womens thoughts.
2006-09-21 07:58:46 · 10 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say something to him. He disrespected your wife and your home. That's no good friend.
2006-09-21 08:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by lonelykuroinu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!
Like others who have answered this question, I too suggest that you confront your "friend" with the information that your wife told you. I can also tell you from personal experience that some creepy men will also go after the daughters of the women they lust. I had a former step-father lust for me when he was no longer attracted to my mother, and I was still just a teenager when he started. For the sake of both your wife and daughter, please confront this man and let him know that you will not tolerate his lewd thoughts and behavior.
2006-09-21 08:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by nerdgirl77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let it go this time as to being a weido, but your wife should be cautious. he could put her in an unpleasant situation if ever caught alone. If something happens in the future I would hope you refuse to have Him in your house with your WIFE AND DAUGHTER.
2006-09-21 08:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by concerned mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say let it go..It's not something I would do...But then we all have our own freakish stuff...He didn't delibertly do it infront of your wife or you...Had he done it so that your wife could see him then I would say smack him around a bit....Besides the only thing he was smelling was fabric softener...Just think about your own private kink and realize he is no different than you.
2006-09-21 08:07:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO!!!!!!!!!!! thats sick...you need to bring it up. You need to know whats really up with your friend, plus im pretty sure your wife is uncomfortable now...AND you have a daughter, Lord knows whats going through his mind. Be safe than sorry...
Let him know that you know he was sniffing ur girls undies, if he's some sort of freak you need to know! Can't let any frick-a-zoid into your home, you have two ladies you need to protect.
2006-09-21 08:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by Melia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do: Do you want him hanging around your daughter?????? Then get rid of him or else you daughter could be in the dryer next!!!
2006-09-21 08:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Tina Zecca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL,ok it's messed up,but he didn't come on to your wife.I would just be straight forward and tell him,hey idiot my wife saw you sniffing her panties.If he hides from you thats his problem.I wouldn't over react to much.
2006-09-21 08:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just couldn't resist... does he know that you know? or it was only your wife who saw it? Don't beat him but you could tell him that you are not sure he still can be a good friend of yours
2006-09-21 08:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Owl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that your wife saw him do it. he'll probably never come around again. Then punch him in the face
2006-09-21 08:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by tgood367 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does she feel about it? she probably doesn't want him back in the house and you're still debating on what to do....that's some real creepy S H I T.
2006-09-21 08:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋