i am getting married few weeks after.i am a male.i dont know how to approach my wife for ding sex in our marraige night
2006-09-21 07:52:33 · 23 answers · asked by sweety 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
please answer if u really had cross this situation
2006-09-21 21:32:59 · update #1
need not to worry if u r an indian she never show that she knows every thing so u can go in any way and if u r and an american then also u need not to worry she will manage every thing
2006-09-21 23:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ekant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, your both so exhausted from the wedding that it's time for bed. Especially if you have a couple too many as your having the time of your life. Worry more about the next night, actually it will be better then. My daughter just got married and her special night, which she was totally prepared for with clothes, thong underwear, sexy... She spent it over the toilet. LOL. Ask her about the next night! Just enjoy, and don't pressure yourself. If your a virgin and this night is the first, Good luck!
2006-09-21 14:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by flower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take my advice just D O N ' T D o I t O n T h e very first night. Instead do every thing else that comes to your mind. Why , " because that is the apex and there is so much else to do before reaching out there on the first go. so Explore and enjoy.
2006-09-21 22:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh trust me. If you're both virgins, or one of you is, or youve never had sex together, its a big awkward time.
We had a bottle of wine. Or atleast I did. Lol. Losing your virginity is weird, even when it is with your spouse. But dont worry. Hormones pick up where weird leaves off.
Just take care of her, be careful. She knows you're going to have sex that night, its a given, you should talk about it now with her. That way you both wont be so weirded out.
2006-09-21 14:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read The Act of Marriage by Tim LaHay. It is from a Christian perspective and it will tell you what to do. Good communication is important also.
2006-09-21 16:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by pennypincher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before marriage make a close move with her. Go out oftenly and discuss your problems and understand one another. Then on your marriage night u and also she won't feel shy to do something on the occassion.
2006-09-23 04:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anikris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try to speek each other in bed room.get understand both of u.ask some questions regarding sex and interesting positions, slowly proceed.Best of luck :)
2006-09-22 00:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by raghu r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she's a virgin too, she'll feel just as awkward and won't think any less of you. Do what comes naturally to you. Start by kissing her and you'll find it comes to you fairly naturally. I'm sure you'll do fine.
2006-09-21 14:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by S. O. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you learned how to spell.
Sorry to be mean, but I would answer your question if I could FULLY understand it. I can take out the meaning, but the details are VERY sketchy!
2006-09-21 15:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by Yoshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will do fine. It will all come natural. Set the mood and be romatic and then slowely give her a kiss and it will all start coming to you it will just flow and will be nice
2006-09-21 14:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by helpif i can 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋