I keep trying to get him to talk when he's that way, and every time it makes it worse.
2006-09-21 07:50:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think he really might be trying NOT to fight. It takes two to have an argument and maybe if he senses that you are at an impasse, he might just be quiting until you both cool down. By pressing him you are forcing the argument to go on with both of you getting madder as a result. Let him stop for a while and when things are better, see if the subject comes up again when you both can calmly discuss it. Don't force it to a show down again, or you will get the same result again. Try to be the peacemaker. If something can't be resolved, then seek out help from a counselor or a pastor at church.
2006-09-21 08:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason we'd become suddenly quite is if we get a feeling of indifference and "don't care attitude" or are not able to communicate/make other person understand our point of view. Please remember men and women think vastly differently. I'd recommend you read "The five love languages", this book saved my relationship.
It is sad that people are looking for the right person. We need to be the right person first, because we attract what we are. Remember in marriage you can either be right or be happy, you choose what you want to be.
Hope this helps, good luck.
2006-09-21 15:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Arun Jain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his way of being in control, and you are left feeling helpless. The next time when this happens tell him if this is his way of dealing with some thing you are not going to discuss anything that will cause an argument. You will do as you think best and he can live with it
2006-09-21 14:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he like that before you married him? If he was, you have to accept him the way he is. When my husband has thngs on his mind (stressin) he is the quietest man in the world but eventually he snaps out of it and is as playful as a baby. Sometimes you have to give him space. Men need that sometimes. Hope this helps. Good Luck!
2006-09-21 14:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by hope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone for 30 mins and let him sort out his feelings and thoughts. Its harder for guys to say what they're thinking, and if you are trying to wrestle it out of him, he is just going to end up getting frustrated and saying things he might not mean.
2006-09-21 14:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋