2006-09-21 07:44:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I forgave my wife and then we started swinging. I find it erotic to watch her have sex with other men.It has helped our marriage .
2006-09-21 07:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jim k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would all depend on the circumstances. If it would be a one time thing and he would explain why he did it and it was a valid reason, I would stay. If it's a ridiculous reason and it's obviously because he's not in love anymore, I would leave and not turn back.
All in all, if the communication and honesty is there, you can usually work it out and forgive.
2006-09-21 14:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive him. I would expect the same from him.
It would leave no trust in the relationship and it would slowly dissolve.
I know when I have been in cheating relationships once the cheater was discovered it broke down any monogamous (sp) agreements opening the relationship and thus eventually ending it.
2006-09-21 15:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by timberleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no reason to cheat. My husband cheated on me 1 week after we got married w/an ex gf..he didn't tell me..I read about It on myspace.com on her page :-) then I busted him w/it when he came home @ 2 am...but I still remind him everyday how he hurt me & hurt our marriage..that's been almost a year now, and he's bought me things to "try" and make up for it..It'll ALWAYS be in my head what he done...but, I stil can't forgive & forget..but life shall go on..we're fixing to have our 1st child together next year, so I should just "let it go"..
2006-09-21 19:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by superkisses86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would & did forgive my wife, because I love her. I was very disappointed, but I could never live with myself if I didn't forgive her. To error is human, but to forgive is divine.
2006-09-21 15:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no reason for me to cheat period. ! my wife told me before married if I ever cheated it done over history.... so I have kids and wife and i am not going to cheat on no women over my wife???
they should learn that when you were in High School I learn that and I know that it hurts alot girls I done to them and I learn the past and knowing that no way for me to cheat.
I learn and Glad I did. If I didn't, for sure it will happen if I cheated my wife.
2006-09-21 15:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because once the trust is gone there is nothing left! Besides who wants to be worrying all the time thinking about them doing it again? Not me!
2006-09-21 14:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgive you Amber. Now back to the love making......
2006-09-21 14:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not under any conditions forgive my hubby if he cheated on me, if he ever cheated on me then i would know he no longer loves me and that would be the end of our marriage, i have not and would not ever cheat on my hubby.....
2006-09-21 21:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i forgive my honey for doin it once but i know that i will not do that again if it happens again
2006-09-21 14:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋