2006-09-21 07:34:50 · 21 answers · asked by lily 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it is. It's normal to wonder if you really want to spend the rest of your life with this person and if things are going to change afterwards. It depends on what type of doubts they are and if they can be worked out with your partner. Once the two of you talk about it you should be okay.
2006-09-21 07:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting engaged is sometimes a huge reality check. it's the next step towards marriage.......and we all know what happens with most marriages. it's all cute and fun when you are just in the relationship. it's fun to talk about getting engaged and married. but sometimes the actual event really freaks people out.....even in the best of relationships. cause it's either forever.....or divorce. sounds intimidating and that's okay to acknowledge that. better now than after you really get married!
2006-09-21 07:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by ♥2323vsb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is it you are having doubts about? Did the significant other give you reason to have these doubts. It may just be nerves. I would hold off the wedding for a bit to make sure that this is what you want.
2006-09-21 07:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to have doubts! You begin to question yourself, you become confused, there are so many different reasons why you will begin to get the jitters! If you know that you love and want to marry him and be with him for the rest of your life and you have you have complete faith & trust in himand he you, and you are also very confident about this decision deep down in your heart & soul!
Then you should be just fine!
Good Luck & Congratulations!!!!!
2006-09-21 08:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's face it... getting married is a life altering event... and you just agreed to it and it's terms... of course you will feel overwhelmed by it and doubts will run through your mind... So take it slow and make sure you think things through... Make sure your feelings are real and also your future mates feelings... Set your sights on the future together and decide if it's right for you and what you really want... I'm sure everything will be okay... I think we all went through that phase...
2006-09-21 07:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kinds of doubts, and what are they based on? It's normal to have doubts in a sense that none of us can ever be 100% sure in anything. But sometimes doubts are indicative of a deeper trouble brewing. You have to learn to categorize your feelings, and distinguish one thing from another.
2006-09-21 07:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is perfectly normal. A lot of people get cold feet. Youre completely changing your lifestyle. It used to just be you and then add another to the equation and realize that it is forever can be scary. Dont feel bad. Just make sure that you discuss it with your other half so that they are aware and can help you through it.
2006-09-21 07:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by agraat23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, because you are stepping toward a big commitment. It is normal and healthy to have fears and doubts! Haven't you ever heard of cold feet! Just look at what you are thinking about and ask yourself, "can I live with this for the rest of my life"?
2006-09-21 07:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The doubts you are encountering now, will only pale in there magnitude once you are married!!! This institution was doomed from the very beginning, and has migrated into a feeding frenzy to the lawyers. My two cents on this subject, is that you should consider your options!!!
Huggs and Kisses,,,,
Lonnie
2006-09-21 07:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!
youre at a new stage in life and soon to be in a newer stage that is completely different. its quite normal, so please do not believe the ppl on here that are going to tell you "DONT MARRY HIM if youre unhappy and doubting and not sure!!"
its a phase and either you'll get over it or marriage will fix it.
good luck! im engaged as well
2006-09-21 07:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋