u see we were togheter for a year and 3 months .Well i really wanted that to work out but i was very childish at the time and well i was only 16 and he was 20.so yeah our lives were going totally different directions well yes we were sexually active and well from what i know i was the best he ever had but seriously thats not the deal its just that we use to argue alot and i think for a while he hated me but now we have been talking and well its been about a year since our break up or so i think im 18 now and well we are friends now but recently he told me he wanted to see me and well i made up a lie and said i was sick its because we are both really sexually attractive to eachother and well i dont want to get caught up again when we see eachother we just cant help it but to please on another and then well he might not want to get back togheter again and well im not up for that friends with benefits type of stuff you know!
2006-09-21 07:32:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ahhh sounds very complicated..well if he wants to meet you just to use you because he misses being intimate with someone, that is not a good enough reason lol...i mean it's either you get back together because you both really like each other..either he can just drop the though about friends with benefits. I think that ignoring him won't get you anywhere, he will just keep on trying. What you should do is try to talk. Maybe somewhere crowded like in a coffee shop, so he won't try anything fancy. Just tell him what you think..if you feel like you are both still having a thing for each other then maybe you should give it another go?
It's up to you...but if you think that it's not going anywhere and that you can't work it out after a second shot then drop it.
Take care.
2006-09-24 19:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step away from the drugs. You must be nuts going there. You're gonna get him put in jail. Grow up then see if you are still attracted to him. At least finish school.
2006-09-21 07:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dorkboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is still a grammar and spelling issue for me. I'll tell you what. I'll lend some advise when you learn how to write something legible. Until then, good luck.
2006-09-21 07:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Zach S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 and a 20? won't work
2006-09-21 07:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have made a big mistake.
Think befour you do anything unnatural morally.
2006-09-21 07:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by SKG R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are too young for him well.
2006-09-21 07:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by delta s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋