2006-09-21 07:30:34 · 28 answers · asked by sawgirl513 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
forgot to mention - the one i'm talking about is in his late 30's and we've been married almost 18 yrs-
2006-09-21 07:38:36 · update #1
I remember when i was teenager and I remember won't say I was sorry and everythign or when I was wrong. But when I learn so much from my father who like that and I made the choice to change this.
I change to be a better Man, Son, Husband, and Father for my better life and I had to change it not to carried this for the next generations..... so I always tell my wife I was sorry I was wrong and youa re right, I even clean the house even if I work 12 hrs everyday but I do clean up... I even take care of my kids and makeing sure feed, shower, brush teeth, read story, and telling them i love them have a great dream. There no reason for me to lie my family, cheat my wife, name calling, etc. I just can't not me I made it clear that I will not be like my father period.
I have learned being a kid age 30 that shows that you having fun with your kids. that very imporant thing to me in the world. LOL, I learn to love, give, share, knowing I am wrong, etc. but sad to see right now men complain why why... ya know.
It the men have to change it but if they don't change it then it will be like father to son that carried that plm on and on and on... so I am not going to be like my dad period and glad I did change it smiling.
2006-09-21 08:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really do not know the answer to that...i read the answer you meet the wrong men...well if that is the case i am 53 years old and i have not found a man yet that would admit when they are wrong...and they think we are suppose to pick up after them all the time...i can not stand a man to use my bathroom..i have not found any including my sons that do not piss everywhere...looks like they would know how by now...i think they just do not care that much like most women do....and they only say nice things seems like when they want something...that is been the way the men i have been married to and dated have been...so i agree with you...some has some good traits but i guess we all have some bad ones...but i like having my bathroom to myself...after sharing for 30 years with a husband and 4 boys....
2006-09-21 07:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of the way women abuse it when we do.
Whenever a guy shows his feelings or say nice things, women take advantage of the situation to make him feel inferior to her.
If we pick up after ourselves, then it isn't enough. Then we have to do some dishes too, and then the laundry, and then sweep the floors. Unless we do everything around the house, it isn't enough, even if we work full time and she doesn't.
If we admit we're wrong once, it is NEVER to be forgotten, but forever forward whenever we have a disagreement, it is brought up: "Remember 12 years ago when you thought that Linda's ring was real and I said it was fake and I was right?"
I'm so glad my wife isn't like that. But most women are.
2006-09-21 08:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they feel that if they are the only one working then it's the woman's responibility. I feel that in a relationship if one partner is having a hard time the other needs to be supportive and not help not cut them down. Men seem to not show feelings like women. I don't know the answer to that one. I guess it's the left or right brain thing. Or women are from venus and men are from mars, something like that.
2006-09-21 07:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by Becky M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called pride, pride, and pride! speically with the admit there wrong., guys hate to have there pride crushed, and some guys things its stupid to pick up and clean, and show their feelings and even say nice things. There are guys that do it, but its hard to find one. Guys have a hard time seeing that women like thos ethings in a guy. Maybe if you have bf or husband that does this, encourage him and let him know that you really like it when you show feelings and help me out aroudn the house and all that
2006-09-21 07:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prejudice: : preconceived judgment or opinion (2) : an adverse opinion or leaning formed without just grounds or before sufficient knowledge b : an instance of such judgment or opinion c : an irrational attitude of hostility directed against an individual, a group, a race, or their supposed characteristics
2006-09-21 07:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Double O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does all of that, and more. Obviously, you're not with the right men. Correction: Obviously, you married the wrong man. Sucks to be you!!
2006-09-21 07:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one of our faults in general but not true for all... Just be happy that you have him in your life. He will show you he loves you by doing other things for you. It's kind of like a man asking "why can't she just accept me for who I am, change her own oil in her car, and admit when SHE is wrong?". Take care n' good luck...
2006-09-21 07:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by BECB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married the wrong guy. I am the opposite of this.
2006-09-21 07:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's becasue they're stubborn and they're stuck in their ways. You have to learn how to mix things up. (flip the script on him). Treat him like he treats you. He'll get the point if he really likes you.
2006-09-21 07:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by Ambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋